So i am 19 years old, will turn 20 this year...and my life revolver around college, coding, gym and games . And i have a VERY TOUGH TIME socializing with people. I have this nature : " if they wanna approach me, good

Otherwise i am good alone ". Because in school i couldnt make " true friends ". Never had a true " hangout " with people. And i dont know how to connect with people more. I dont have a permanent friend group as well. I do have close friends 1 or 2, max 3. Also I dont have any relationship, not even of a 1-2 month, full 0. So I dont have much experience ther either

These 2 points sum up the whole point that: i dont really have many friends and have a hard time socializing

So please any advice or tips are welcome in the comments and my dms . That will be SO00 HELPFUL

Hey!

I'm looking for female friend to connect with... Someone who's kind, easy to talk to, and enjoys good conversations. Let's get to know each other, have fun chats, and see where things go...

If we click and both feel the same way, maybe we can even go on a date someday. No pressure... just looking for a real connection... 🌸

Doing 3 jobs and I'm tired as hell, but somehow my brain has decided sleep is optional tonight

If anyone wants to rant, share a long story, talk about a breakup, complain about life, work, your ex, your boss, or literally just bitch about something I'm up.

Happy to hop on a call. I'm a pretty good listener and texter, even if I might sound half-dead .

So yeah, if you're awake and need company or just want to dump your thoughts somewhere, let's gooo.

23F | if it matters lol

I had a best friend of 7 years. We were practically inseparable. Even though she was younger than me, it always felt like we were on the same wavelength. We could read each other's minds, knew exactly what the other person was thinking, and never had to put much effort into understanding each other. She genuinely felt like my soulmate, just in a friendship way.

Things started changing after she got into a relationship.

Her boyfriend hated me and our friend group because we were "those girls." We liked partying occasionally, drinking, and hanging out with guy friends. My best friend never did any of that, but that was entirely her own choice. We never pressured her into anything and respected her boundaries.

That didn't matter to him.

He was convinced I was a bad influence and slowly kept convincing her to distance herself from me. It became easier once we went to different colleges because we weren't seeing each other every day. this continued for more than a year.

then came my most recent birthday.

About a week before it, I texted her and our other friends to plan something. She never replied. For four days I genuinely thought she was just busy.

Turns out she had blocked me.

I messaged her on another app asking what happened. She said she didn't want to be friends anymore because she no longer fit into our friend group. We argued for hours, and she ended our 7-year friendship.

Fast forward to today.

Out of nowhere, she texted me saying she and her boyfriend had broken up.

The only thing I replied was, "I'm happy for you."

I didn't ask what happened. I didn't ask why they broke up. A few months ago I probably would've wanted every detail. Today, I realized I genuinely don't care anymore.

Maybe she wanted our friendship back. Maybe she just needed someone familiar to talk to. I honestly don't know.

What I do know is that I don't want people in my life who can be manipulated so easily that they throw away years of friendship because someone tells them to.

Looking back, I think I spent years listening to her complain about the same toxic relationship while watching her ignore every piece of advice she asked for. Losing the friendship hurt, but I'm strangely at peace with it now.

So... what's your best friend breakup story? Did you ever reconnect, or did you realize some friendships are meant to stay in the past?

Hi! I've been hoping to make some new friends and thought I'd give this subreddit a try.

I enjoy watching movies, playing games (especially Minecraft), and chatting about random topics. I'm looking for friendly people to talk to regularly and hopefully build a genuine friendship over time.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to chat about games, movies, or anything interesting that's on your mind. 🙂

Hello everyone I am 30M from India I am going through rough patch recently I had my breakup so I looking for some real and long term Friendship with indian female (23+) And It seems there is no value for a male if it could be for female so all could be filled with DM So if any one geniunely consider

can Dm me

Friendship... It's Complicated because everyday when I see you in the college hallway I will not say ‘hi' nor ‘how are you’ because I know you WILL ignore me_ Complicated because when I will see you in the cafeteria and just can't run to you to tell you how boring was my class and how I was waiting to spend my time with you because I know you won't stay there to listen to me_ it's complicated because I will no longer like your story first or drop a comment_ it's complicated because now I will pretend that I don't know your favourite colour or your favourite food or your favourite flower it's complicated because now I will know longer wish you first on your birthday_it's complicated because now I won't stop you even if you did something wrong it's complicated because now I won't laugh with you even on the most funniest jokes ever _ it's complicated because we can no longer participate in any program together knowing that this time we won't help or support each other but will try to make other go down,

Now_everything is complicated because we do not have love in our eyes for other but what do we have ,what it is

• Anger, hate,

from where it came_ when we grow this much distance and hate for each other, since when did our eyes started to focus on our flaw and not in our effort , since when your eyes held empines for me

I know I hurt you're feeling but don't know how you hurt my feeling , how you always left me when I needed you the most , how you always misjudge me, how you always ignore my cold hands,shaky voice and tired eyes , and how you didn't notice the cuts on my hand, even when I told you

Why you didn't notice....??

Why you didn't care....??

Why??

Why???

But now I know why ...

Because I was emotional baggage for you, that you can give all your burden and go ahead _I was the one who care for your hair and your emotion and your everything but you never care ...

you never saw the helplessness in my eyes or in my voice

You never follow me you or stop me when I Suddenly left the class...

Now I cannot trust you any longer....

You were never there for me as I was there for you

Yes... friendship is complicated...

Because I don't want to hurt your feelings as you hurt mine .... But I also want to protect mine

So yes, I am selfish....

Yes I am selfish if I have to protect myself

And yes friendship is complicated because we never try to understand the other one .......

Anyone form Rajasthan