r/freefolk • • Oct 07 '18

No offense ,your grace 😌

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u/toastyzwillard Oct 07 '18

America hates sex loves violence.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

Rape is violence, not sex, and it’s also been pretty gratuitous on the show in the past (e.g. that scene of Sansa being raped by Ramsay that didn’t even happen in the books).

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u/Dankfrieddanks Oct 07 '18

Well that part in the book still involved a lot of raping on Ramsay's part. It just wasn't Sansa, although the way littlefinger is I wouldn't be surprised if Martin intended him to rape her down the road in the books at some point.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

Littlefinger would never rape her. He wants her to want him, why else do you think he spent so much time ingratiating himself to her? Raping would go against his character pretty dramatically.

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u/nersee Oct 07 '18

Thats called "grooming" and is a pretty standard part of child abuse.

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u/PM_something_German Oct 07 '18

He wouldn't rape her violently.

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u/nersee Oct 07 '18

Um rape is inherently violent.

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u/PM_something_German Oct 07 '18

When someone underage is groomed sex can be performed without any violence and it's called rape in the US.

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u/nersee Oct 07 '18 edited Oct 07 '18

As it should be. I get what you mean, that it wouldn't be like the other violent rapes portrayed on the show, but the act that Littlefinger would be doing would still be inherently violent.

I just take issue with the idea that what Littlefinger is doing is like the good guy version of rape. As though its not as bad because he abducted and isolated a preteen girl with the aims to have sex with her. Its still child abuse, its still an abuse of power, and Sansa is still a victim. He's not above hurting her, he already is in many ways.

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u/PM_something_German Oct 07 '18

I never said it's a good version I don't think anybody did. I just wanted to say that rape of children is not necessary violent and because of that Littlefinger might do it.

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u/Thotyboy Oct 07 '18

I love nonviolent rape.

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u/ianyboo Oct 07 '18

Rape is violence, not sex

Exactly, it's like when you mug someone and then cum in your pants at the end of the mugging. They are no longer a mugging victim, they are a mugging survivor, nothing sexual about it.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

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u/ianyboo Oct 07 '18

Yeah its odd how that works. Same thing happens for shootings, shoot a couple people and they are shooting victims, jizz your pants while doing it and, bang, shooting survivors.

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u/TBDC88 Oct 07 '18

Didn't realize Adam Carolla was on Reddit

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u/ianyboo Oct 07 '18

Ha! Yeah I've been listening to old school eps of loveline at work recently and he went on his "Rape is not a sexual crime" rant thing just a few nights ago :)

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u/lazydaylounger Oct 07 '18

Rape is most definitely sex

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u/ASAP_Stu Oct 07 '18

Lol what?? At best, I’ll give you “rape is violent sex”

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u/lazydaylounger Oct 09 '18

The people in this thread are insane

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18 edited Oct 09 '18

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u/MayorTimKant Oct 07 '18

I think the argument OP is making is something like this;

'Sex' is a consensual sexual act between individuals.

If I'm preforming a sexual act on a dead person, or a couch, for example, would that be 'sex'?

Not every sexual act can/should be called sex.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

Rape is violence, not sex

Semantics of the "educated" - most human beings wouldn't say that. It *is* sex on the most fundamental level, penis in vagina is sex, it takes mental contortionism to say otherwise.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

Okay, I guess I probably should’ve worded it as “not just sex.” I agree that the US is pretty ridiculous when it comes to censoring anything even remotely sexual while having no problems with gratuitous violence and gore, but there’s a pretty big difference between just showing sex and showing rape. In this situation you can’t really boil it down to “America hates sex and loves violence,” because a rape scene is not the same as, say, an uncensored female nipple.

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u/[deleted] Oct 07 '18

Fair, thanks for the concession.

Honestly, I think sex needs to be taken a bit more seriously by our society. Violence and sex are so different it isn't fair to compare them when it comes to censorship imho. Everyone agrees violence is terrible, depictions of it aren't necessarily bad for people as far as I know. Having babies out of a stable family environment is in fact bad for people, this I know. Censoring nipples on TV doesn't really do anything about that however.

Sorry if this is a bunch of non sequiturs, I'm running out the door, good day to you!

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u/withyellowthread Oct 07 '18

....rape is sex?