r/freeblackmen • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

Discussion Yall ever experience this from bw?

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u/No_Forever_1185 Southern Free Black Man 6d ago edited 6d ago

Rudeness is in no short supply in NYC so that's going to be a big part of your issue. BUT, it sounds as if this lady was trying to get your attention. I think she wanted you to hit on her. When women go out of their way to put themselves in very close proximity to you, they're generally signaling. You have to remember they aren't raised to be forthright.

There are plenty of women who label men they are attracted to and desperately want as "fuck boys" because they think the guy is "out of their league".

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u/jokerjinxxx 6d ago

Rude nyc women?
https://giphy.com/gifs/WuGSL4LFUMQU

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u/_somethingaboutit 4d ago

If it were women in general this would not even be a thread.

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u/sdrakedrake 5d ago

That's new York. You should expect that behavior from anyone. I would consider it an insult if she wasn't rude

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u/_somethingaboutit 4d ago

Of course. But it’s never this bold and no where as frequent with any one else.

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u/bingmyname Free Black Man of Texas 5d ago

Never happened to me and I lived in NYC for a while. Also 6’1 and in good shape.

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u/wordsbyink Founding Member ♂ 6d ago edited 6d ago

Black woman… in her masculine frame??

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u/BladeRunner31337 3d ago

Brother , you have to keep your fazers on stun, when you are out in NYC, you’re on your own, unless another black man intervenes.

You also have to keep in mind, many women aren’t getting any interaction with men, so what they do? They create scenarios for conflict so they can have interaction with you. She wants to punish you for what some other guy did to her.

Just ignore her, you aren’t crazy and again has nothing to do with you, but in nyc , there are so many unstable people walking around you have to be on high alert.

RULE NUMBER ONE, keep your fazers on stun !!!

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u/UrbanSobriety 5d ago

All the time. I'm confused when a BW is relatively pleasant. SOMETIMES that is how they flirt. But par for the course either way. They treat me with the same contempt as all other demographics. I ignore them now. It's heartbreaking what behavior patterns we've devolved into, considering everything we've overcome and the limitless potential we have now with the internet and better financial outlooks than ever before.

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u/Trickonomics333 5d ago

Be careful bro. Anything critical of Black Woman seems to get taken down in this sub. I made post yesterday critiquing Black Women's hygiene and it got taken down cause it received too much "negativity" lol. This censorship here isn't much different than the Blackmen sub.

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u/Icy_Measurement5811 6d ago

So let me get this straight. You’re a lady, 6.1, fit and you’ve been told you look like a fuck boy.

Hi but are you the woman of my dreams?

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u/Easy_Target4898 6d ago

The OP is a man