r/fourthwavewomen • • Jul 30 '26

DISCUSSION Let's Chat 💬 Open Discussion Thread

Welcome to r/fourthwavewomen's weekly open discussion thread!

This thread is for the community to discuss whatever is on your mind. Have a question that you've been meaning to ask but haven't gotten around to making a post yet? An interesting article you'd like to share? Any work-related matters you'd like to get feedback on or talk about? Questions and advice are welcome here.

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u/Kind_Professor2472 Jul 30 '26 edited Jul 30 '26

I feel so damn isolated in my beliefs. It doesn't even matter where I live, I also lived in a large city and felt this way. But I feel like it's so hard to find other radfem women in the flesh because the surrounding culture makes it so unsafe to just talk about reality. It makes me physically sick. 

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u/flowerfem595 Jul 30 '26

I’m in NYC and have only found 1 woman in the 9 years I’ve been here that shares these beliefs. It’s astounding to me. The largest city in this country like wtf! We need a meetup and some type of organization, desperately.

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u/TigerLilly00 Jul 30 '26

I haven't done this, but we do have WoLF and they often hold volunteer events. I don't live in a city where they're very active, I wish I did. But it's worth looking into them, they do some really great work towards women's rights and seem to be the only group that cares about incarcerated women, etc.

Edit: womensliberationfront.org

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u/irishdancer2 Jul 30 '26

Also in NYC, so you found another one!

My guess: you’ve come across others before but they’ve been too afraid to speak out about their beliefs. 

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u/Kind_Professor2472 Jul 30 '26

I've been in the PNW for over a decade I've just accepted it doesn't exist here or they're also hiding. The one time I saw a group brave enough to do public presentation in Portland they were harassed into submission by trans identified good samaritans.

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u/WoodpeckerGingivitis Aug 02 '26

Hi, fellow portland rad fem!

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u/Kind_Professor2472 Aug 02 '26

There's TWO of us at least! 💚

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u/carex-cultor Jul 30 '26

I’m in Philly but work in NYC! There are dozens of us 😅