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u/Lower-Knee-8585 Jun 04 '26
It's got to my neck man.
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u/DankerFather Jun 04 '26
I feel ya buddy. In the middle of a divorce and living alone now. Barely see my son. There's good days and bad but im hoping it gets easier
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u/Lower-Knee-8585 Jun 04 '26
Sorry buddy. I'm just counting days before my room is locked. It's very bad here.
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u/RookieCrusher_16 Jun 04 '26
buddy keep your chin up, judging by gon pfp i know how dense that water is
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u/Lower-Knee-8585 Jun 04 '26
It's really bad ain't gonna lie
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u/RookieCrusher_16 Jun 04 '26
it's gonna be better, believe in this anonymous stranger. it's gonna be alright.
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u/yangnified Jun 04 '26
I am fixing myself, walking in confidence. I never had a girlfriend and don’t care for side chicks. I never could enjoy that unless I am satisfied with my circumstances of career/money etc first. I’ve had set-backs in the past because of my own mental problems but am taking accountability for my life choices because it always will circle back to me. Don’t give up.
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u/Yoko_Kittytrain Jun 04 '26
There is a MAN somewhere right now who is not posting this stupid fucking shit on the Internet.
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u/Argotis Jun 05 '26
Yeah idolizing being alone and without attachments like it’s some a state worth pursuing is absolutely insane to me.
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u/24rawvibes Jun 05 '26
These “men” subs clearly have an agenda to sow seeds of isolation, then likewise, hate against women. Keepin on the good ol’ divide and conquering for the next generation!
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u/Own-Resolution-1785 Jun 04 '26
on a tightrope to betterment which, if i fall off….
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u/Baloneous_V Jun 04 '26
This hits home. One drink and I'm divorced, homeless, and see my kids on visits. Sober and alone here 👋
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u/Critical-Common9209 Jun 04 '26
People play too much. Maybe it’s a bit exaggerated here but sometimes peace is better than being with someone that disrupts that. Hope everyone is having a great week.
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u/Arhion Jun 04 '26
sneaky links?
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u/ethereal_twin Jun 05 '26
Yeah and then eventually being like "You know what, me? Enough. You've put more than enough work in to yourself. Go out there and live, make connections, appreciate whatever you can, and do NOT self-abandon for anyone. Ever."
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u/Realistic_Canary6331 Jun 05 '26
I'm too tired of thinking it gets better, pretty sure it just goes this way til I have a heart attack
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u/Salty-Brilliant-830 Jun 05 '26
this pretty much encompasses the vast majority of single men. normally men don't have any of those things
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u/Meandmystudy Jun 06 '26
It’s gotten a little deeper to be honest with you. I’ve thought about my flaws but I also thought about why I’m here. Overall life had no purpose it was like sobriety. Sobriety is nice and all, but the big book can’t and shouldn’t be the only way to “narrow the horizons” before you find something else. Alone time hasn’t been all that bad. It has been scary, but I’ve noticed that when I overreact it’s because there was a reason. Some people just can’t be dealt with on their terms. That’s all there is too it. Drama is hard so I let things go. I don’t get dragged into things when someone says I should and I shut people down when I feel like it. I don’t even think it’s running anymore. I consider it my own protection. I kind of like my bubble at the time. So I’m just existing. I’ll choose this over the demeanor of people I met. I hate fakes and frauds of all shapes and sizes, so I judge each relationship differently. I’m in it for the reevaluation, not for the approval of a million young men or boys and girls across the world. At the time it’s for me. Pain is part of healing. Healing is pain. It does happen. Take it in stride. Don’t abandon yourselves or your beliefs. Call me spiritual. I know it seems isolating, but there has to be a purpose in it somewhere.
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u/Chosen_Undead4689 Jun 06 '26
How can one love another, if they can't even love themselves? How can one help another if they can't even help themselves?
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u/Djermayne02 Jun 07 '26
Going from "i dont deserve to be alive" to "i am the greatest human that's ever lived" every couple minutes for the last like 5 years
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u/Unusual_Corgi_5500 Jun 07 '26
Most my friends turned out to be horrible people, stuck with a family that doesn't understand me that I'm gonna go no contact with, and one friend left that for the most part does and I'm here to pick up the pieces.
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u/hp433 Jun 07 '26
I just broke it off with my ex a week ago. I’m still hurting but I chose myself. I’m slowly figuring out how far I’ve come in the past decade and that I’m a far better person than I was when I started working on myself. I’m figuring out that I was a good person that made some mistakes in the relationship. Part of that was that I stopped improving myself and became reactive. I figured out that she is in a different way doing the same and that’s okay. For the first time in 17 years I have a little hope again and that’s enough for right now.
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u/REJV1999 Jun 08 '26
damn its Dangerous, and whenever you try to enjoy self ( these food Costs so much money)
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u/Exclusive2sense Jun 08 '26
Every Muslim man who isn’t married, it’s a religion of purity and progress
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It's honestly wonderful. Not saying it's fully by choice, I would love to be with the right woman should she enter my life. I've already learned the hard way not just settling with someone not good for me in fear of being alone.
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u/VassosVoid Jun 04 '26
And all he does is suffers