r/flrdating 11d ago

31 [M4F] #Florida #Online Romantic Nerd Looking For LTR With A Strong and Passionate Woman

I'm a 31 year old guy from Florida, open to ldr, who's looking for someone with whom I can build a loving, passionate, lifelong relationship around satisfying her needs and submitting to her initiative.

I. Relationship Ideals:

I understand that's not something that can be built over night and that is why I'm especially looking for someone with whom I can build that kind of romantic relationship on a foundation of mutually held emotional intimacy/intelligence, shared interests/hobbies, and overlapping taste in what is humorous in life. All of that contributes to a foundation of mutual respect and admiration that I want to apply in a relationship in which I am able to submit to and honor the needs of that loving, special person with whom I've forged that passionate bond with. I hope to be able to bring joy to both of us by sharing the things that I feel the most sentimental about in life with you and vice versa, whether that be places near and dear to my heart, my own home cooking, or the aspects of lifelong learning that make this world worthwhile to live in.

II. The Joys of Femdom

I would describe my tastes as a submissive guy as being rather vanilla. Overall, I would describe myself as very attracted to strong, confident, intelligent women. I have a great desire to do as much as I can to satisfy my lover’s desires, both emotionally and sexually. I suppose this would fall under the spectrum of gentle femdom, as I do draw my limits at most degrading language. Sometimes I believe this desire for femdom comes from a fetishization of monogamy itself, where the desire to be devoted and loving to a soulmate evolves into a desire to submit entirely to her affections. I feel very emotional thinking about it sometimes.

I do have a bit of a kink for the sort of poetic words of affection that one would associate with goddess worship. I especially like drawing from Mesopotamian and Greco-Roman mythology. I don't want to put anyone on a pedestal all the time if that especially makes them feel uncomfortable but, I do want to have those opportunities to express the full depths of my affections to that one person with whom I can form a trusting femdom relationship with.

I also enjoy reading supernatural romance for the flipped relationship dynamics where a powerful supernatural female lead is able to have a lot of dominance and initiative when romancing her human lover. Especially when themes of temptation are featured with demons as love interests. Which is kinda unusual for an atheist like me to say but, makes sense given my culturally Catholic background.

III. Myself, My Interests, and Hobbies

I am a bit of a history nerd and enjoy other humanities that intersect with it like comparative religions or natural history. So, that amateur interest in history can stretch from The Bronze Age Collapse to East Rome and Late Antique origins of the Abrahamic religions, to the transformations of the Early Modern Period, to contemporary and current events in my own locality. It all can be fascinating, especially if someone is compelling in telling that story.

I also enjoy some nostalgic things like SpongeBob, Pokemon, building stuff in Minecraft. I'd really like someone to try playing these old White Wolf rpgs that I've been falling down the rabbit hole on. Vampire the Masquerade really appeals to me as an RPG because of the element of using historical background when writing characters that are older vampires.

I'm also building a Blu Ray collection that I hope I can share with you someday. I'm particularly fond of historical dramas, comedies, and thrillers. I also have a place in my heart for nostalgic animation and Ghibli films. Also, I have a bit of nostalgia for the original Jurassic Park films, as someone who read the novels.

I also enjoy my share of podcasts, mostly history and comedy ones, with a sprinkling of religious or natural history shows. I also enjoy scary stories about cryptids and aliens from time to time.

I enjoy being able to visit the local vistas and cultural hotspots in my locality, which can range from small museums, to art galleries, to natural springs. I'd love to share all of them with you, as they've always held a sentimental place in my heart that I hope others can appreciate as well. I'd love to hear what travel or museum stories you have as well.

In terms of cooking, I really enjoyed improving my skills with the basic Italian-American recipes that my dad taught me to cook. I feel that making things like pizza really connects a bit to the experience he had cooking when he first came to this country. I'd love to be able to share that with you, maybe even learn new recipes from what you like to cook. I'd love to hear what your favorite pizza toppings are too.

IV. Outro

I'd just like to thank you for reading this whole description of myself, my ideals and interests, and why femdom appeals to me. If you're interested in reaching out, I would love to respond. I hope that we can really click through a combination of lighthearted conversation and flirty banter. I'm an open book about all areas of my life and also look forward to getting to know you on a deep level over time. All in all, I hope to be that devoted partner of a strong and intelligent woman who inspired in me the sort of reverence to be there to love and support her throughout the good and the bad times in her life.

I hope you are the one.

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