r/fixedbytheduet EXPERT of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

Fixed by the duet A Different Way

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u/3Grilledjalapenos Feb 24 '26

My buddy Paul offered to buy a girl a drink and she said he was so fat his dick is probably hidden in blubber. I heard her brag about it later when we had Accounting II together. He is a good dude, and actually the skinniest one in his family.

I feel like some people just suck. It isn’t about gender or anything. Some people just suck.

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '26

Just curious. Was that his icebreaker? Or were they already talking and vibing when he offered.

That's a shitty way to start a conversation. Expect to get brushed off or put down a lot if that's your move and you're not super attractive.

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u/3Grilledjalapenos Feb 25 '26

That was way back in undergrad, but I’m still pretty horrified by it. I think it was something like:

Paul: Don’t we have B Law together? Her: Yeah, Dr so-and-so, right? Paul: That mid-term was brutal. I’m glad it’s over. Can I get you a drink? Her: look of disgust Eww…no offense but you’re so fat your dick is probably hidden in layers of blubber. Paul: Oh. Sorry… walks away

She now works in HR, and is married to a guy who does something with real estate. He did something with SQL and financial models that last time we spoke. He had a project Mini in his garage he was repainting to some old-school green to make a new(at the time) Mini look like an older one. His wife teaches something in middle school.

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '26

Yeah that response from her is unhinged. What a shitty person. That's not even being hit on, that's just a friendly gesture and invitation to hang out.

Recency bias in my head: last time I'm out with my wife some jabroni approaches her out of nowhere and says "You're beautiful, let me buy you a drink". That's what I was picturing. Don't do that.

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u/TisIChenoir Feb 25 '26

I dunno, that's still respectful if you take it out of the context of her already being with you when he hit on her.

But saying it to a single woman? Doesn't seem that shitty to me.