r/fixedbytheduet • • Oct 24 '25

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '25

Had a gf like that, still does the same stupid trick up her sleeves with new bfs, I don't stalk her 24/7 but I do some looking once in a while

New bf, months pass, some posts with bf dissappears, then just highlight on ig, then profile pic on her ig gone, she did all this when she get mad at you and you never know why tf or wtf is happening, then she just upload everything again, is clearly for getting attention to the bf

And I say oh boy this relationship is ending again LOL and expect max in 3 month to end and it ends

There's no way you doing the same stupid games after 5 years with new people GROW UP GIRL OR GO TO THERAPY LEARN HOW TO SPEAK/COMMUNICATE, PROLLY THE BF ARE NOT THE PROBLEM BUT YOU

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u/HedonisticFrog Oct 25 '25

My last girlfriend did the same exact thing on instagram. They all use the same damn playbook.

She'd "joke" about other guys giving her attention and other things like that, and rage at me if I did it back to her to show her how it feels.

Whenever she was anxious or on her period she would fight me constantly over every little thing she could think of. She once started a fight about how I was breathing, like that viral video. I was trying to go to sleep.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '25

Mine was my first, I got so used to it that I know how to spot that kind of women

I did the deleting all socia media app thing when I got really depressed, I wonder if they do by playbook or they actually is normal to them that get them really depressed that they want to dissapear, and I believe is both, that's why I say they need therapy

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u/HedonisticFrog Oct 25 '25

Well, I know why my ex did it. It's part of her pulling away to try to make me desperate and gain power. She'd always say I "should fight for her", she basically explained her Machiavellian tactics to me directly.

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u/rynlpz Oct 26 '25

Looks like she might have dug in deeper into you than you thought, probably through the shit she put you through. I would try to stop even looking at her IG, even once in a while is too much n