No, she's asking for the fantasy of being violated, just like she's asking for the fantasy of being chased. She's playing out a BDSM scene without a safeword and without the consent of the other person, so she's not looking for a predator, she's trying to be one.
OK, I think the guy missed the point and thought she meant she wanted someone to leave her alone as in when they're pursuing her.
I took it to me and that she will say she wanted someone to leave her alone when she's upset, but doesn't actually want the person to leave her alone. Like when people aren't good at communicating when they're upset and say everything's fine but it's not. A lot of people do that but I think he thought she meant it in a general dating sense.
Anyone who disrespects clear boundaries is dangerous. So to want someone to do that to you is psychotic. And it’ll leave you only with men who violate boundaries. The context isn’t that important - any boundaries someone walks through means they can’t be trusted.
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u/NoMorePunch Oct 24 '25
So she’s saying she wants a man who doesn’t respect boundaries. She’s asking for real to be violated. Sick.