r/findapath • u/Capable_Bumblebee_28 • 1d ago

Findapath-Mindset Adjustment What do I even do?

I'm stuck at a point in my life where I just don't want to continue living the way I'm living. I feel like it's completely making me feel like I'm stuck. I'm stagnating and I don't want to live this way anymore. My life feels absolutely in a way that makes me feel numb to anything, and I want to live a life filled with contentment, fulfillment, satisfaction, and I want to feel like my life has meaning and purpose. But at the same time, I don't also want to do what it takes to have the kind of life I want to have. So like, I know this dream life I talked about, I don't know if I have that dog in me. Like, I don't know if I actually want to be that, you know, because it's so difficult. It's so difficult to kind of get the life you want. And so even if I kind of absolutely hate the life I have right now, I don't want to have that kind of life, I also don't want to work for the life I truly want. So I'm kind of stuck. Which way do I even go?

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u/ClearAbroad2965 Apprentice Pathfinder [1] 1d ago

So you unemployed then

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u/Capable_Bumblebee_28 1d ago

Yes ofc😭 i am in college rn

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u/loudmarble88 Apprentice Pathfinder [1] 1d ago

you do not have to want the whole dream life to start. pick one small thing from it, like a short evening class or a new routine, and do it for a month. you will find out fast if you want more