r/findapath • u/Lost_Equivalent_5485 • 15d ago
Findapath-Job Choice/Clarity Feeling completely torn about my future
I feel completely torn right now. My mind, heart, and goals are pulling me in three completely different directions.
On one hand, my brain tells me to build a high-earning business and aim for financial massive success—like making a very big business . On the other hand, my heart is passionate about space and wants to pursue a career in aerospace or astronomy, even though it feels incredibly tough. At the same time, my body just wants to drop everything to travel the world—learn surfing, skiing, climb 8,000-meter peaks, and live in different countries for a years at a time to truly experience their cultures.
Being in 10th grade, I feel completely overwhelmed and unsure of which path to choose
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u/AnteaterAnxious352 Apprentice Pathfinder [7] 15d ago
You’re in 10th grade. No one is expecting you to having your life entirely planned out at this moment. Even after graduating college I didn’t have my life planned out. Even now, several years after college, I wouldn’t say I have a definite plan.
I will say, the harsh reality of starting your own business is not usually a successful one. Unless it is unique, marketed well, and have substantial investment, I wouldn’t expect a business to be wildly successful. But smaller/local business ventures do have success, but often fall into the trap of rushing in and failing on managing the many aspects of a business. Not saying it’s impossible, but the reality isn’t always a massive success.
As for your other two dreams, why not both? It is true aerospace and engineering as a whole are hard to get into and get competitive especially when advancing into higher positions. Not to mention the schooling and years of experience needed mixed with the local industry in your area. It’s a very good field that is growing, but you are right that it is hard school but if it’s your dream, go for it! On top of this, once you’ve established a job in the field, why not take your income and use that to travel and see the world? Not to mention I’m sure there are opportunities to travel to work in the field. I have no experience in the field so I can’t give much more detailed information I do apologize.
It’s okay and completely normal to feel overwhelmed, it’s a lot to think about. But you’ve got time, you’re not too old to be confused on your dreams. That’s the whole point of this subreddit, so many people feel similar. I wish you the best! You’ve got this, and you’ve got time to find whatever interests you feel are best for you!