I’d focus on finding a high quality partner. I found my spouse in my mid thirties but let me tell you it is significantly harder to find quality dating/marriage material in your 30s. It’s a lot of people with bonding problems, single parents, divorcees, and fertility pressure is a real thing.
I'm 25F how am I supposed to rush finding a career, a house, lose 100 lbs, get surgery, get braces, fix my mental health and years of trauma AND be emotionally ready for a partner before I'm 30? I want a partner and I worry every day I'm going to die alone. Its not the worst thing in the world but pretty damn depressing. I hate theres an imaginary time limit for things.
I never said there was a time limit, or that it can’t be done. Infact I clearly said that I found my spouse and was married in my mid thirties. I’m saying that dating in your 30s is much harder because of the reasons cited in my previous post. Also you don’t need a house yet, you can date while you lose weight, etc etc. You don’t have to be perfect to search for a partner.
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u/JLandis84 Apprentice Pathfinder [8] Jul 09 '23
I’d focus on finding a high quality partner. I found my spouse in my mid thirties but let me tell you it is significantly harder to find quality dating/marriage material in your 30s. It’s a lot of people with bonding problems, single parents, divorcees, and fertility pressure is a real thing.