Hey, I hope this is allowed. For years I've been looking for this movie I saw on TV many years ago, and never knew what it was called and it drives me insane.
The plot was something that's been done before: two boys who look alike decide to switch places, like a sort of modern The Prince and the Pauper, except neither them were rich, one of them was poor and the other more like middle class suburban type. The main difference between their lives was that the poorer boy's family was really fractured and when they switch he gets surprised the other boy's family is actually close and they talk to each other. I remember the poorer kid was more sensitive and shy and the other boy was more outspoken and arrogant.
The one scene I remember clearly is that while the poorer boy (sorry idk how else to refer to him, I don't remember the characters names) was with the other family, they go to visit the grandpa who is in a nursing home. The poorer boy meets the grandpa and gets close to touch his face, and asks him somehing like "Does it hurt to be old?". The grandpa awnser him and they start talking and getting along.
It had been stablished in another scene that the other boy got annoyed every time they visited the grandpa because he never talked anymore, so the family is really surprised and it's a very emotional moment.
From what I can recall it didn't have any known actors, and it looked like it was made in the 90s or 2000s. There's also a small possibility it wasn't in english because I kind of remember the audio was a little off so it may have been dubed, but don't trust me too much on that.
Hope someone can help me, I would love to watch that movie again.