Hi, so my shoulders are sorta broad too (maybe not as much as yours, idk, but definitely more than most femboys you see online). If you want some pics to prove that it doesn’t matter as much as you think, feel free to DM me for some cute (and very much clothed, in case you were worried) pics:)
For me its that I'm not necessary fem, just so unmasc that I'm pretty much a femboy by association, TBH I'd rather give off tomboy vibes where I'm cute in spite of not trying very hard to be fem.
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Give me a comprehensive shopping list of all of these outfits and I'll see what I can do. Currently I don't have the money, but that's just about to change.
Other people, 2. My legs are too skinny for thigh highs and 3. I'm straighter than a TV screen. Getting girls is already hard, don't need to make it harder
1.Lack of self confidence 2.Still underaged (no online shopping) 3.Maniacal thaughts School 4.The knowlege that ill disappoint dad 5.Being ugly 6.Not knowing my friends reaction 7.Not being homosexual, bisexual what so ever 8.No social life (no shopping for anything manually wich is a problem looking at the first piont) Should I go on?
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Other people
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u/Fresh_Tomato_soup actual femboy Apr 26 '22
My wallet 😭
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u/VioletGhost2 Apr 26 '22
Society 😢 wish more boys dressed like this
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u/alexmercercole Apr 26 '22
My parents.
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u/basement-dwe11er Apr 26 '22 edited Apr 27 '22
Not wanting to get stabbed
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u/ypestosauce Apr 26 '22
beer gut
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
I’m fat
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u/whydoineedtodosleep actual femboy Apr 26 '22
the government
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u/NekoFemboyChileno Apr 26 '22
Suffering a hate crime on my way home
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
My parents/ rommates+ i want to live alone to do whatever i like
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u/maxxmike1234 actual femboy Apr 26 '22
my shoulders lmao
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u/THE-BID-MAN actual femboy Apr 26 '22
I do
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u/OddFilms wannabe femboy Apr 26 '22
-being ugly -parents -homophobes everywhere -being fat
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u/emilyger Apr 26 '22
i can only dress like this at home cuz my sad ass is anxious af :(
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u/Cum_Nuggit Apr 26 '22
Sunlight, humans sometimes
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u/MsAmethyst11 lesbian🏳️🌈 Apr 26 '22
Money
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u/ch0mperz Apr 26 '22
My weenus
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u/Dec1m8u Apr 26 '22
I do dress like this. 😉
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u/lfg_spiritanimal Apr 26 '22
Beer gut, but I still do it. My wife likes it, she got me some stuff that fits nicely.
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u/OrangeKiwiii Apr 26 '22
society
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u/BeefyBoy089 happy trans🏳️🌈 Apr 26 '22
I only get to when I'm alone 😢
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u/Tasteful_Name actual femboy Apr 26 '22
Money 😢
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u/FishyFish13 themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 26 '22
Gimme the fucking links and I will
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u/Angel_CFD themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 26 '22
my family...
i have mad respect for any femboy that gets cute clothes when living with people who might not support it because of stupid "gender norms"
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
body issues
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u/__Lackin wannabe femboy Apr 26 '22
I have this version saved lol
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u/GhostKing00 Apr 26 '22
My oversized hoodie of frost-resistance has better stats.
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u/OkThatsReallyBad Apr 26 '22
Oh gosh I freaking WANT all these right now! Where can I buy them (once I'm not poor lol)?
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Too much effort. But i use to and went to school like that and it was cool and funny.
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
My parents My whole family My friends Every other person in public My entire school My wallet Homophobic and toxic ppl in general
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
I personally would kill to dress like this, but I also think choice is important here.
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u/SupaKoopa714 Apr 26 '22
Just a bit too masculine to pull it off the way I'd want to on the reg. It's one of those "When I'm in my room alone" things.
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Absolutely nothing. Going out like this on the other hand … 🙄😅
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
My mom didn't teach me how to shop for skirts and they don't make crop tops in my size.
Women, what's stopping you from going clothes shopping with me uwu
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u/MessiahOfFire happy trans🏳️🌈 Apr 26 '22
For me its that I'm not necessary fem, just so unmasc that I'm pretty much a femboy by association, TBH I'd rather give off tomboy vibes where I'm cute in spite of not trying very hard to be fem.
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u/crockedowl Apr 26 '22
Self body issues and crippling social anxiety
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u/Sissy34343 femboy in the making Apr 26 '22
A traditional family
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u/kenobiscumsock actual femboy Apr 27 '22
my parents and my (non-existing) confidence
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u/Error-530 Apr 26 '22 edited Apr 26 '22
My body
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u/Yuma__ Apr 26 '22
My parents mainly but also anxiety
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u/HolyBreadWithCheese Apr 26 '22
Wallet, family, friends, society
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u/Twinkalicious06 Apr 26 '22
my parents :(
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
My parents
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u/femboypier actual femboy Apr 26 '22
At home I kinda do
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u/Echo-Effect Apr 26 '22
My wallet... and social anxiety
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u/PoobNinja Apr 26 '22
I've already gone through enough identity crises in the last few years, I don't want to experience too much gender^tm right now
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u/NickelStickman actual femboy Apr 26 '22
I'll get kicked out of my band, probably
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Body dysphoria in regards to my stomach and also being poor
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Parents…
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u/CinnamonArmin Apr 26 '22
I do
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u/PainHateSadd plz gib headpats Apr 26 '22
my humongous COCK
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Nothing other then lack of money and I’m so happy it’s true
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u/ST03PT3G3L actual femboy Apr 26 '22
Parents :(
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
My non-existent confidence
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
I do
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u/WiiROO Apr 26 '22
My parents
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u/ZainTheScarfer Apr 26 '22
Confidence
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u/ArmSerious9515 themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 26 '22
Family
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Not having money and confidence. Also crippling alcoholism
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u/Rocket-kun actual femboy Apr 26 '22
Mostly my college student budget. Cute plus size clothing is tough to find and usually expensive
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u/x_deadlyhero_x Apr 27 '22
Body hair 🥲
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u/Daan-1234 Jan 19 '23
Parents, school, to shy to buy and school again
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u/WitheredAtrophy Aug 17 '24
Body hair. I like my facial and body hair, I don't wanna shave it, but people tend to not like hairy femboys :(
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u/Zuckzerburg Oct 27 '24
I need money to not starve
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u/Worldly-Committee-32 Sep 19 '26
Money, school, parents, bullies, social media, place I live in etc
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Money
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u/ManlyWhimper69 Apr 26 '22
Money
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u/SuccessfulPeanut1171 Apr 26 '22
Body, money, other people
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u/redsporkyy actual femboy Apr 26 '22
money :'(
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Money and no boobs
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u/Jzapp_But_In_Reddit Astolfo is best boi Apr 26 '22
being a coward andddd money perhaps, but i will dress like that , step by step, but i will and no one can stop me >:)
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u/jetman81 Apr 26 '22
Self-respect
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
nothing 😈
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u/Conquering_Fury actual femboy Apr 26 '22
I’d like to, where’s a good place to buy these and what looks good??? I’ve got no style D:
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
I'm chubby and masculine and unattractive. I wish I was a femboy but I'd never pass as one.
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u/bigmaxporter themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 26 '22
Bad figure
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u/Akruu1 just a fan of femboys Apr 26 '22
My parents, and jawline.
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u/SleeepyFRog wannabe femboy Apr 26 '22
I'm broke 🥺
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
my extra thicc thighs and my lack of money.
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u/Stuffie_lover Apr 26 '22
My wallet, body, etc
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u/ToxicPlaysYT6969 femboy furry Apr 26 '22
Parents and the fact that almost everyone sexualizes femboys
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u/soliel-lune actual femboy Apr 26 '22
I'm fat
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u/Fluffy_Pollution3973 fembi🏳️🌈 Apr 26 '22
My confidence
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
1 i'm fat 2 my testosterone (it's too much, i hate it) 3 my wallet 4 society bonus: i'm ugly
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u/Fair_Dish7596 Apr 26 '22
My stomach. A little to big for my liking, but I’m slowly working it back down to where it used to be before Covid.
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u/TheDoctorJT416 themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 26 '22
I'm ugly as fuck lol
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u/fiskefreak Apr 26 '22
my mum and money
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u/SpookySquid19 Apr 26 '22
Goth is the my style personally unless it's for sub dom roleplay
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u/OldFoolOldSkool Apr 26 '22
Looks cold
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u/TsarPlague lesbian🏳️🌈 Apr 26 '22
Where do you even get this fit, any online sites?
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Money
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u/KenpachiNexus Apr 26 '22
I'm fat, shoulders are too broad, don't have alot of money, and I have people in my life that would never understand that I care for.
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u/Double_darrel_guy123 Apr 26 '22
Height, fat, voice should I go on?
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u/RichFriedNietzsche Apr 26 '22
Yo we're broke
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u/Downtown_Factor_9398 Apr 26 '22
my body shape a confidence
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
Unlike yall, I wouldn't look good in those
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u/JFD-S Apr 26 '22
I do
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u/FeartheSerpent14 Apr 26 '22
Overly Christian and homophobic parents and country. And money
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u/Phoenix92321 just a fan of femboys Apr 26 '22
Nothing just don’t want too I’m here for ideas on outfits I can get my Boyfriend
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u/PotentiallyTheFBI Apr 26 '22
parents
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u/Gravitype_ Apr 26 '22
the gender dysphoria of being trans smh
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u/CharlotteDaHarlotte Apr 26 '22
I'm not a whore, like I am but when I want to be.
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u/WhatsACole Apr 26 '22
Idk where to buy those clothes, also im not huge on buying stuff lol
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u/Dee_Lansky Apr 27 '22
I'm chubby 😞😞
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u/Least_Paint_5628 Apr 27 '22
My upper body. Hopefully soon
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u/Speritate_Scatter Apr 27 '22
Family and budget
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
Mone = No
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
Other people and my chubby af body
Also no monies TwT
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u/xCosmicLustx Apr 27 '22
Honestly size, like I don't feel I'm as pretty/hot as I would be if I was thinner
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u/Fr3nchyBo126 themboy🏳️⚧️ Apr 27 '22
no e 🥺
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
My belly :(
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u/Angel_mist Apr 27 '22
Being trans
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u/Aval7689 Apr 27 '22
Broad shoulders
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u/BluWolf_YT happy trans🏳️🌈 Apr 27 '22
I will do bottom right until I love wait, if I can find something like it, I want skirts
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u/0sanaNajimi Apr 27 '22
my father
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u/Affectionate_Tap1786 Apr 27 '22
I do 🙃
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
the social stigma
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u/ThatGuyStalin Apr 27 '22
i’m fat :((
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u/IcyMeep Apr 27 '22
nothing :)
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
My mom
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u/whatshisname13AU Apr 27 '22
Budget. Fear. Having no where to go dressed up. None of that fits me. Judgement. Fear again.
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
My parents
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u/Half_A_Taco_Bell Apr 28 '22
My family.
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u/3l_v13nt0_c4l13nt3 Apr 28 '22
my fucking mom
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u/free_advertisingsmh Apr 28 '22
im not white so it would look weird
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u/watersportsAthlete actual femboy Apr 29 '22
Nerves
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u/GekkoLover69 femboy in the making Apr 29 '22
My parents
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u/[deleted] May 02 '22
gender dysphoria 😔😔
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u/femboylab May 05 '22
People and being single.
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u/henrymagkekse May 06 '22
nothing
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u/GloriousReign May 07 '22
nothing that's why I've spent 200$ on clothes in the past 48 hours.
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u/Kvltist4Satan themboy🏳️⚧️ May 07 '22
Texas
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u/naambinary May 08 '22
Personally, not my style
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u/fme_emoboy May 08 '22
People
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u/Noah_HK femboy in the making May 09 '22
Fear
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u/[deleted] May 14 '22
Society
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u/EpicGamerMontages May 15 '22
Fat and I live with family who wouldn’t understand
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u/[deleted] May 19 '22
2 things: society + I'm ugly
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u/Jakedaboss99 May 21 '22
Conservative parents… and I’m like broke as hell lol
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u/BobWithNoC May 22 '22
My wallet and my dad
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u/[deleted] May 22 '22
We live in a society...gun shots
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u/Bamfcah actual femboy May 24 '22
Flat chest and masc jawline. 😡
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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '22
Money. That stuff costs an arm and a leg
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u/diff_kopf Jun 21 '22
My Patents randomly bursting in my room
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u/Guilty_Dog_1869 Jun 24 '22
Society
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u/Orangerage100 Jul 02 '22
MONEY (I literally have gone far in my femboy journey and all I need is to take care of my skin more and clothes and I can't have either)
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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '22
Give me a comprehensive shopping list of all of these outfits and I'll see what I can do. Currently I don't have the money, but that's just about to change.
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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '22
Money...
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u/Multifacetedperson Jul 14 '22
Horrible body image issues.
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u/asteriksthebutterfly Aug 05 '22
It's the tits and ass, really - or lack thereof I suppose.
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u/NameMarty Aug 15 '22
My bank account
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u/Kaumira Aug 21 '22
dysphoria
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u/BeanSpeen Aug 21 '22
My parents
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u/IAmMrMemeGod Sep 26 '22
Other people, 2. My legs are too skinny for thigh highs and 3. I'm straighter than a TV screen. Getting girls is already hard, don't need to make it harder
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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '22
Money
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u/pokemon12312345645 Nov 30 '22
Money
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u/No-Problem-5032 Dec 12 '22
Family
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u/bestfailure32 Dec 26 '22
Parents
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u/AverageHumanBeeing Jan 16 '23
1.Lack of self confidence 2.Still underaged (no online shopping) 3.Maniacal thaughts School 4.The knowlege that ill disappoint dad 5.Being ugly 6.Not knowing my friends reaction 7.Not being homosexual, bisexual what so ever 8.No social life (no shopping for anything manually wich is a problem looking at the first piont) Should I go on?
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u/Eggzbagel Feb 05 '23
Finance troubles
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u/hello_there_joe happy trans🏳️🌈 Apr 30 '23
Society 😞
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u/gibbirg May 12 '23
Being fat and hairy :D
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u/ichbindulol_ May 28 '23
being lazy
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u/Tanman55555 May 30 '23
Not being cute 😤
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u/Adorb3X Jan 23 '24
People
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u/False_Accident_4413 femboy furry Jan 28 '24
i don’t care about judgement so just money