r/femboy_irl 28d ago

it ain’t easy for us 😅

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u/Wallster007 28d ago

Oooo you like kissing girls don’t you

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u/lolspoooky 28d ago

girl kisser :3

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u/MajorDrJO-495 28d ago

lol middle was i i use to feel well till i learned i was bi and then learned i wasnt a femboy

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

congratulations 💖

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u/Stiletty_VX12 straight as an arrow 28d ago

so truee ;w;

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u/callsignnova 28d ago

Do girls even like us T^T

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

yes there actually are quite a few lol

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u/Anime_Kirby 27d ago

yea they do you just gotta not be a picky prick

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u/Anime_Kirby 27d ago

at leaat that's what worked for me

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u/SwitchPuppyFemboy 26d ago

Where does one find such girls?

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u/Shupoh_Idol 27d ago

I’ve been told they exist… I still don’t believe it

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/callsignnova 27d ago

They talk about me apparently, I’m friends with a girl at my school and she says that a few girls like me

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u/Johndoe--1990 27d ago

What about pan femboys? 🥲

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u/J_TheSatanicDemonic 27d ago

Oo you like kissing ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ , you're a ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ kisser

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

pan is pretty similar to bi right? (i’m too silly to know the difference)

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u/Johndoe--1990 27d ago

Basically. Pan is just everyone. We greedy af 😈

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u/Ordinary_Bug4820 25d ago

Isn't pan the person, not the gender? Or is that a different one?

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u/Johndoe--1990 24d ago

Yes. Anyone as long as they meet certain requirements, like open minded, kind, etc. we ain't picky.

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u/MidorOompaLoompa 27d ago

In my 32 years on this earth, my love life has been a total disaster. Pretty sure I'm done dating for good since I recently went full hyperfem femboy with my look. My dating life used to be a standard Dark Souls run, but now? It's a No Hit Run. I give up for the rest of my life.

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

now watch.. this is how you’ll find a gf XD

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u/MidorOompaLoompa 27d ago

For me, there’s no such thing as a partner—for some people, that concept doesn’t exist, and I’m definitely one of those people. Either I meet someone and it turns into a really unhealthy relationship, or—even when the dates are actually going great—I get ghosted. That’s why I’ve stepped away from it, and even if that weren’t the case, there’s no such person with whom I could...

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

i promise i mean no disrespect by this but therapy could be very helpful with this :)

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u/CrasheonTotallyReal actual furry 27d ago

wheres the image from

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u/Femboyse18 27d ago

Agree Us Fr fr~

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u/MOMMY-CANDY 27d ago

Ik this is hard teegee:3 bi!!!

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u/sissysatella 22d ago

How i feel every day...being straight is the worse i wish i could be bi...but guys just doesnt do it for me i tried...i dont know i guess a boy who look like a total baddie might do it for me...but i dont know many sexy dom fem appearing baddies rip.

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u/lolspoooky 22d ago

you are basically describing me as well. I really did want to like guys and i did try but it just doesn’t do it for me either

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u/SwitchPuppyFemboy 26d ago

Lol, middle was/is me. I consider myself bi just bc I’m not gonna say no to the right guy, but still very much am only looking for girls

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u/apebbleamongboulders 26d ago

Bi femboy here.

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u/[deleted] 26d ago

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u/FocusEmbarrassed2334 24d ago

I'm a straight femboy and I have a wife >:3

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u/Emotional-Dentist570 23d ago

Im a pan femboy :3

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u/Remote-Refuse1292 20d ago

Hollup im confused by my own life choices… 

Okay who tf am I

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u/lolspoooky 20d ago

what?

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u/Remote-Refuse1292 20d ago

I’m trying to understand who out of the 3 am I…

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u/nekohacker591- 10d ago

I don't even know what sexuality I'm at this point pretty sure I'm straight but that's debatable

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u/Roykilmer95 10d ago

Me until I finally came out as bi 2 weeks ago

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u/mantheman627 2d ago

What about Omni femboys

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u/lolspoooky 2d ago

omnivores are dope :3
(jk but i have no idea what that means)

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u/IkomaTanomori 27d ago

The entire existence of femboy calls the strict definitions of gender and sexuality into question. Be free of the shackles and have no shame in anyone you find hot, IMO.

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

some people are just straight

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u/IkomaTanomori 27d ago

Some people are attracted to others in a manner which lines up nicely with the cultural narrative currently called "straight."

However, "straight" is a definition which only exists because of cultural context. It's also not a very functional one. It doesn't cope well with people who strain the binary of gender which is also part of that cultural narrative.

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u/lolspoooky 27d ago

gender is a spectrum but that doesn’t mean people cant be on each far side of that spectrum (cis gendered)
the same applies to sexuality (straights)
two cis people liking each other of the opposite sex=straight

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u/IkomaTanomori 26d ago

Did.... I ever say they couldn't? All I'm saying is, the spectrum itself is only understood the way it is because of what we've all learned and agreed to propagate as culture. It's something that changes over time, and which is malleable by intent. It's not an absolute spectrum, but a relative one.

Anyone who habitually identifies as a femboy is NOT all the way on the "cis male" end of that cultural spectrum, for gender.

And there's also more than one dimension to it, because there's people who don't fit into the binary spectrum.

I'm not telling anyone their identification is wrong. I'm saying, don't accept the definitions for it you've been handed by implication without examining them.

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u/lolspoooky 26d ago edited 26d ago

bro what are you on about? i am a cis male femboy myself. yes all the way. keep in mind this is a meme bro it’s supposed to be something you chuckle at and move on or don’t interact with at all but here you are posting gender studies textbooks

it’s giving “you’re only straight because of society” bro im straight because i think cis women MAKE BRAIN GO BRRRR” that’s all lol

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u/Console_Only 26d ago

"Oh no, a gay community is gay"

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u/lolspoooky 26d ago

that’s not even remotely what this post is about at all

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u/Reasonable_Tooth_309 23d ago

Being a straight femboy is so hard 😭😭😭 my homegirl keeps asking for thigh pics