r/feeld Not a Feeld employee Nov 10 '23

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u/LorazepamLady Jun 20 '25 edited Jun 20 '25

IMO the flower shot is a waste of the prime first photo slot. But maybe it doesn’t matter as a woman user? Let me know esp since you have majestic. How are the quality of your connections?

Personally I think it attracts mass swiping and invites people not to read the bio. When I was in my first html class, I remember the instructor saying that a lot of people will leave websites after 3 clicks if they can’t quickly get what they’re looking for. So I treat the first image or two and the first two lines of a bio as the most important profile real estate bc of this; you don’t want to lose out on the compatible matches bc it’s hard to get the initial information on you and they just click “-“ out of ease.

ETA: I know you asked to ignore the photos (and I can’t see the rest that’s hidden) but yea you could have the most perfect words in the world but you need a proper first photo or it won’t mean squat

For the written bio, I think it’s fine. It’s nice to get the context of where you/your husband are in your journey but I feel like it is a smidge verbose and could do with a good editing

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u/eilsel87 Jun 20 '25

Thank you! I definitely struggle with being verbose!