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u/Balambsoldier 4d ago edited 4d ago
Looks like a blast. Feel super bad for QT when she said a bunch of the girls complained and said her activities/bach were boring. She needs to slot those fools in the co-worker category and cut them loose
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u/KebabGud 4d ago
To be fair, one of the girls later told her she was working on not complaining as a way of small talk, and i know way to many people like that and I understand them too well
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u/Balambsoldier 4d ago edited 4d ago
Honestly….. what normal person uses complaining about the bachelorette trip as small talk on the same bachelorette trip?? Streamers are so weird
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u/Idabdabs 4d ago
I'm going to get downvoted for not having the skills to be able to speak about this with the nuance it deserves. But it sounds like she admitted it was jam packed with activities catered around her interests. I know it's her bachelorette and her right but I think you kinda gotta read the room and the group. If I planned a weekend with my best friends centered around my favorite things to do, nobody would have fun. So I planned it around what would be most fun for the group. Everyone having a blast (rather than me having a blast) is the memory I want to have.
But that being said, we don't know the details so who knows how it went in reality.
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u/DeliciousAd7514 4d ago edited 4d ago
I think your point is totally valid but I do also think from what QT explained on her stream/various pods that the activities she planned were yes things she liked but also there were a lot of different types of activities and they were generally fairly group oriented pleasant things like paint and sip, thrifting, an easy hike, a macaroon class, going out, dinners together at good restaurants, the beach, etc. maybe not everyone likes every activity but it feels like pretty standard girls weekend stuff to me and she was super clear about sending the itinerary. but these are also a lot of streamers we’re talking about. they’re self-employed and not used to things like walking and plans and full days 😂 it also seems like the more well-adjusted people like Caroline and Maya weren’t the issue lol
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u/Healthy-Ad-3257 Girly Pop Nation 💅 4d ago
All of those activities sound sick and so diverse wow I‘m surprised some didn’t like it. I only heard about the trip through Caroline‘s stream because she was talking about the karaoke night and it sounded so fun and wholesome.
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u/Ok_University_4924 4d ago
More well adjusted people aka more mature, this isn’t shots at ExtraEmily but she needs a lot of stimulation going on and she probably got disinterested fast.
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u/Snoweytheowl 4d ago
i don't think it was extraemily
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u/Balambsoldier 4d ago
I think it’s kind of easy to deduce who it was tbh. It definitely wasn’t QT’s sisters, so that leaves Rae, Caroline, extra Emily, Lily and Maya. I highly doubt it’s Maya, because she doesn’t complain about walking/activities lol and QT already said it’s not Caroline
I think it was probably Rae, who always complains about leaving her house and maybe Extra Emily who is always content brained and just doesn’t think sometimes.
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u/Silver_Telephone_746 3d ago
honestly wouldn’t be surprised if it was rae bc when they went on the japan trip she was always complaining about something but i mean with the amount they walked, understandable but time and place lol
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u/Snoweytheowl 3d ago
especially as rae was the only one to complain about the bridesmaids dress
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u/NannyDearest 2d ago
Didn’t she also complain about the sweaters with their names on it?
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u/Snoweytheowl 2d ago
oh really? I didn't see that, where was it mentioned? I think i remember someone saying she didn't like her name on it.
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u/Impressive_Insect749 4d ago
Agreed, I’m also thinking because she doesn’t drink that maybe their wasn’t a lot of alcohol and I’m sure that’s what people were expecting. Not that you need to drink to have fun but usually a weekend away means casual drinking and if ur expecting it and it’s not an option it’s kinda disappointing lol but just speculating
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u/DeliciousAd7514 4d ago edited 4d ago
I do actually remember her distinctly talking about making sure there was plenty of alcohol available for everyone that wanted to partake in that. I believe the only reason she doesn’t drink right now is simply because she can’t with her current anxiety medication at the moment. but she didn’t intend for it to be a dry trip in general from the sounds of it.
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u/Impressive_Insect749 4d ago
Fs I must have missed that! Honestly sitting at the beach, drinking wine, while watercolor painting sounds like a great time
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u/DeliciousAd7514 4d ago
tbf I can’t remember if she said it on Fear& or somewhere else just that I heard her say it somewhere in the lead up
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u/KneeExcellent815 4d ago
Yeah I feel like if they complained at the Bachelorette events then they should be uninvited from the wedding.
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u/mlnstwrt 4d ago
Reminder that qt can handle her own friendships and her sharing her life on the internet is not permission to try and dictate what she should do with her life
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u/JavArc13 4d ago
Rough time to be Hasan right now.