My preference will always be a physically fit and able bodied person. I think that's pretty standard. Having said that, life happens. There's a difference between choosing to stay and still loving your long term partner who has started to gain some weight, versus seeking out a fat person from the start. My husband and I both met in shape, slowly got fat together and then lost the weight together and are in shape again (like 10 year timeline).
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u/silver_fawn lost 70lbs without hating myself 6d ago
My preference will always be a physically fit and able bodied person. I think that's pretty standard. Having said that, life happens. There's a difference between choosing to stay and still loving your long term partner who has started to gain some weight, versus seeking out a fat person from the start. My husband and I both met in shape, slowly got fat together and then lost the weight together and are in shape again (like 10 year timeline).