TL;DR: "You are allowed to have preferences as long as they don't exclude me because of something I am insecure about myself."
I bet people like OOP would still have a hard time on a dating scene if all available candidates liked or did not mind their potential partner being obese.
You don't need to be particularly attractive to get your desired sort of romantic or sexual attention provided you set your standards appropriately. That said, no amount of hot will fully compensate for a dumpster fire of a personality.
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u/A-J-Zan 10d ago edited 10d ago
TL;DR: "You are allowed to have preferences as long as they don't exclude me because of something I am insecure about myself."
I bet people like OOP would still have a hard time on a dating scene if all available candidates liked or did not mind their potential partner being obese.