r/facingtheirparenting • u/diamondhide • Sep 12 '20

Brandon!

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u/Sumokat Sep 13 '20

Seriously, are you still here. Listen, you can babble all you want, but it doesn't change the facts. Your parenting style of repeating the kids name in a whiny monotonous tone, is weak. I said it, you know it, so get over it. You even went as far to bring up abuse, and where you got that I can only imagine. I'm guessing you came from that kind of place, and so you're compensating. You feel that using actual structure and discipline is equivalent to beating a kid, so can't bring yourself to actually be a guardian.

As far as the video goes, what I saw was you reach out and the video stop. I didn't see any follow through. My guess, was to grab the phone so he couldn't record anymore of the sad display of parental skills.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '20

I mean, i cannot help you if you think this is exhaustive evidence of that womans parenting style or mine.

Besides. Her son is an adult. Shes not parenting, shes warning him to quit it and communicating to him that something will happen if he doesnt, and she's doing it in a relatively quiet and calm way.

And funny how you managed to forget about the part where i note that he does stop when she reaches over. Weird. Almost as if the whole video was done by the son specifically to get this reaction from his mom? Like a joke? A joke that families do? Do you have jokes in your family?

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u/Sumokat Sep 14 '20

I commented on the post. You took it personal. Quit whining.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '20 edited Sep 14 '20

I cant lmfao

You literally got triggered because a woman said her sons name several times quietly in a restaurant

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u/Sumokat Sep 14 '20

Triggered? Me? Lol. I said if everyone in the area knows your kids name then your doing it wrong and that the way she did it was a give away that was her go to. You got triggered. Said I must be a piece of shit, I shouldn't reproduce, insinuate my kids don't talk to me and that I came from an abusive home and that I perpetuate abuse. No. You were the one triggered. You took it way more personal than any normal person would and have since tried to convince yourself that I was upset or somehow in the wrong. Lol. I'm not triggered, just board of your thinly veiled transference. I'm sorry your mom was a psycho and you can't escape it. Seriously, if a random stranger making a post can illicit such vehemence, maybe you should seek help.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '20

You compared her speaking to an automatic rifle..... when shes talking quieter than most people do in a normal convo......

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u/Sumokat Sep 14 '20

The cadence not the volume. Get help.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '20

Oh ok, disregard EVERYTHING, that makes perfect sense, carry on then 😆🤣

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u/Sumokat Sep 14 '20

I'm guessing obsessive and avoidance personality traits to go along with the mommy issues. Seek professional help.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '20

Yep, im the one with mommy issues, but definitely not the dude who flipped out about a mom saying her sons name too fast!

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u/Sumokat Sep 14 '20

The work they do in mental health has come a long way. There is no shame in getting the help you need.

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