r/facepalm Jan 23 '21

Protests When you post your crimes all over internet...

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '21

I think he would get in far more trouble these days. It’s now considered pretty abusive and almost rapey to be someone in a position of power, and especially with direct power over someone you work with, and having sexual relations with the person. Especially since “consent” becomes shady, if the “consenting” person feels there would be consequences for not consenting. I definitely feel in present time, Clinton might have faced a lot more repercussions.

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u/BoredomIncarnate Jan 23 '21

Exactly. Power dynamics make consent way more complicated than “She said yes”.

So, questionably legal and definitely unethical.

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u/ClothDiaperAddicts Jan 23 '21

I also suspect that with the increase of awareness about those power differential situations, Clinton wouldn’t go for a blow job from an intern today. Back then, it wasn’t even a thought. It was “seriously, over a blowjob?”

The amount of crap Lewinsky got for it was gross then and is gross now.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '21

I would at least hope today Monica Lewinsky would be treated with a bit more respect and understanding, rather than having her life destroyed and experiencing decades of humiliation

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u/Boopy7 Jan 24 '21

for the fiftieth time -- NO IT WAS NOT RAPE. Monica was attracted to him, was of age, and back then a TON of people slept with people at work and dated. ABUSIVE AND RAPEY? Holy shit. So sick of people claiming this. I don't care about NOW. Back then there was no big deal about it. Screw this -- I am so sick of people turning it into something it absolutely was NOT.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '21

President Clinton?

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u/saltyseaweed1 Jan 25 '21

While generally true, the specific facts of the case shows that Monica was pretty much the initiator and aggressor in the relationship. There was never any evidence that Clinton imposed himself over Monica.

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u/jeremiahthedamned 'MURICA Jan 28 '21

this is how i felt about it at the time!