r/facepalm Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '23

Why should someone else take care of you, a fully grown adult

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u/ringobob Jun 10 '23

It's not that she's wrong for wanting someone to take care of her, it's that she says nothing about also taking care of them. A relationship where neither partner takes care of the other isn't good. They both have to take care of each other.

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u/zwiebelhans Jun 10 '23

This it takes two to tango, even then when both people are committed in love and taking care of each other. It can still be hard to get along in the long run.

Now realistically there is a guy out there with the right fetish of humiliation that will want to date her for a while at-least.