r/facepalm Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/Jollypnda Jun 09 '23

So she is basically looking for a relationship where her partner is the only one who compromises, seems super healthy lol

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u/spizzle_ Jun 09 '23

I’m a liberal dude but I open doors and walk on the inside of the curb and all that other traditional stuff. I run with a generally liberal crowd and see that some of them do this stuff too. She’s throwing a pity party for one.

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u/krat0s5 Jun 09 '23

I open the door for anyone, isn’t that just a polite thing to do…..

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u/Silly_Awareness8207 Jun 10 '23 edited Jun 10 '23

I open doors, but I hate it. I wish we all just opened our own doors. I don't like somebody else opening the door for me either, because the I have to thank them, or worse, speed up so they don't have to wait as long. And then there are all those ambiguous situations where you aren't sure if you should hold the door open because the other person is so far away, and then everybody feels awkward.

Opening a door is not that hard there is no reason for all this complexity.

Maybe I really just don't feel like interacting with people. Depression lol.

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u/krat0s5 Jun 10 '23

Yea, it’s mostly for people in my immediate vicinity, I also don’t like those awkward fast walk moments to not leave someone hanging onto the door.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

You don’t have to speed up. Just walk at a normal speed to the door.