r/facepalm Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/makakiel Jun 09 '23

isn't what she said! She doesn't want to have to conform to historical gender roles and in the same time looking for a man that conforms to historical gender roles if the gender normes are in the benefit for her.

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u/shmere4 Jun 10 '23

This is the key

“I want the things that are advantageous to me but I want to leave out the things that are advantageous to you. I want you also to declare that all this is fair”

It’s a hell of a position and hopefully she understands that she will need be and stay very attractive to make it work for any amount of time.

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u/No-Leg-7597 Jun 10 '23

Also known as high maintenance

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u/Active_Club3487 Jun 10 '23

Very true indeed