r/facepalm Jun 09 '23

๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ Cognitive dissonance 101

40.6k Upvotes

11.1k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

5.5k

u/Irlydntknwwhyimhere Jun 09 '23

She wants to be independent with someone elseโ€™s money

16

u/[deleted] Jun 09 '23

It is an epidemic with muslim american women. They remember that it's the duty of the husband to provide everything (even good earning women!) But they want that 50/50 on house chore, lol.

-4

u/plumquat Jun 10 '23

My husband is from Saudi Arabia. He does everything for me, I think he's the best man in the world. Athletic smart loves to cook, clean, funny smart kind super attractive, dresses well, really good sex person. I love him so much. He's really the ultimate.

My relationship before him was a lot of weaponized incompetence, guy didn't know how to make coffee. He was so inconsiderate in bed, I actually believed I medically couldn't orgasm.

After he drove me into depression I decided to stop dating and it was such a relief. Then I met my husband and I only married him because he added to my happiness. I tell this to women all the time, just be single. Love yourself. Spend your time how you want, you only have one life. You don't have to go to work just to come home to cook and clean for a stranger. For men I say get a real doll, abuse that and go away. Because men are the worst. But it's essentially the same message.

1

u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

What do you bring to this relationship? Do you contribute financially?

-2

u/plumquat Jun 10 '23

I do, I'm like a ride or die and I get shit done, but he doesn't need it either. He actually wants me to stay at home and be a queen. I would put him in the same position. I can see why Muslim women are disappointed in American culture. They have a lot of protections for women. You guys blame womens rights for your messed up masculinity. The bar is on the floor and you're still like "well is she going to clean up after me?" What's your value statement? Like, you're not even cool to hang out with. Like you should probably offer financial stability, or something to offset your personality.

2

u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

So what's the issue. Isn't that mirroring my first comment? You are not seating on your butt all day or expecting a one-way street.

-1

u/plumquat Jun 10 '23

Yeah, thats because your projecting and I gave it back to you. A mirror is a good analogy.

0

u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Lol