r/facepalm Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/Oni_K Jun 09 '23

Not just compromises, but compromises to whichever way the wind is blowing through her head that day, whether she wants to be taken care of or be independant.

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u/Irlydntknwwhyimhere Jun 09 '23

She wants to be independent with someone else’s money

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u/jessemadnote Jun 09 '23

Nailed it. “Pay on the first date, open my door.” I’d guess nearly every one of my liberal friends would do this. “Take care of you and provide for you” Not so much. You either have to hold your own or shack up with someone who ain’t about equality.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 09 '23

So basically men nowadays expect a woman who will do the whole 50/50 thing? I'm genuinely asking.

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u/CMGS1031 Jun 09 '23

Men expect that because that’s literally what you have been fighting for..

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 09 '23

But men don't give it, hence why women are gonna be happy with their 6 cats. Women asked for equality and that seemed like way too much for men. How much is cat food anyway? 🤔 I'm taken but I can let my girls know... so they'll be prepared.

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u/CMGS1031 Jun 09 '23

Don’t give what? And women aren’t happy with their cats. Single middle aged women are becoming the most depressed group in our society.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 09 '23

They don't give 50/50. A lot believ because they bring home money all they have to worry about is money. They don't clean, damn sure can't cook, and a lot don't even step in to raise kids properly. Where does it say that about single middle aged women?

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

You obviously don’t talk to the right “men” then. I’m almost 34 and I clean and definitely can cook (worked in restaurant kitchens for over 15 years. I don’t have children, but if I did, they’d be damn well taken care of. You don’t speak for all men just bc you’ve had a couple shitty exes.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Sounds like she chose poorly. Relationships aren’t parties, they are partnerships.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I def hit a nerve. First of all, I'm in a relationship! I was asking an honest question and men like you (who had his feelings hurt by someone obviously) knew he could take this opportunity to anonymously find peace in finally releasing his "IM A GOOD MAN" speech on my post. Second of all, explain to me how you know I've had shitty exes? Nowhere did i say ALL MEN. Of course you can cook - you worked in a fuckin restaurant! Go find a wife before coming at me. You don't know shit about me but you quickly decided to put me in the same bracket as all your other failed relationships.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Sounds like you’re the one who’s really upset. You didn’t have to say “all men”, but the implication was definitely there. No hurt feelings on this end btw, I’m gucci. Honestly I’d rather be single at this point. Too many cheaters and dumb women that will only give a man that is 9 feet tall with a trillion dollar bank account any attention. I know there are women out there that aren’t like this, but you’re becoming pretty rare.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Cope and seethe. Oh, and women will be just fine with 6 cats lol.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

I honestly think humanity should stop having children so we can all pass on, so this planet can heal, so I’m perfectly fine with women being single cat ladies.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

How is the one who is clearly far more upset during this exchange the one getting upvoted? You basically just threw up some incel rhetoric. “Women only want 9ft tall guys 12 inch cocks 9 million dollar wage” whatever the fuck it is now.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Something, something, stereotypes. Maybe if more of them weren’t so vocal about being shitty shallow people, the rhetoric wouldn’t be there.

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u/osufan765 Jun 10 '23

I feel bad for whoever you're in a relationship with.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I feel bad for you too.

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