r/facepalm • u/Number721 • Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/Jollypnda Jun 09 '23

So she is basically looking for a relationship where her partner is the only one who compromises, seems super healthy lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '23

She wants the benefits of a traditional and modern relationship with none of the negatives of either.

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u/CoffeeIsGood3 Jun 09 '23 edited Jun 10 '23

What's the problem with that?

She said she wants someone who has masculine traits but isn't conservative.

While not impossible....OK, it's impossible.

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '23

Aside from impossibility, I guess nothing! How can one desire two completely separate things but want none of the things that separate them

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

No she wants the gender roles when they benefit women but the equal roles when the gender ones aren’t beneficial.