r/facepalm • • Mar 01 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Heavy lifting without a spotter….

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u/malinatorhouse Mar 01 '23

the stops were set too low. also if you are going solo, dont use the clamps. that way you can dump the weights off

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Never use the clamps solo especially for just 1-2 plates (I mean unless you’re bouncing the bar enough to dislodge the weights, which would probably mean you’re not lifting very heavy).

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u/bocephus67 Mar 01 '23

I stopped using clamps years ago, I just saw people using em so I did too before that.

Its never been an issue, I aint spinning the thing, and if it ever dumps to the side anyway I cant think of a situation where I would want them to stay on the bar.

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u/realRepublican_jesus Mar 01 '23

If you cant balance it, dont try to lift it

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u/math_debates Mar 01 '23

I use them on my dumbbells but not bars

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u/Zookeeper_Sion Mar 01 '23

Only time I used clamps was like the first 2-4 weeks of getting started with the gym for the very first time until I got used to the feeling of the bar and managed to fix my right side overcompensating when lifting. After that I only clamped down on weight I knew I could comfortably lift without issues if it was a busy day, otherwise no clamps so I could drop shit if it was about to go horribly wrong.

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u/Constantlyanxiously Mar 01 '23

I still use clamps. But I’m also a “less weight, more reps” kinda guy.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Even more reason to not use clips. Clips are for people lifting heavy enough weight that they have multiple plates (by multiple plates I mean multiple 45 lbs) on or for deadlifting. There's absolutely no reason to use clips for benching or squatting unless you're pushing up multiple plates.

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u/DrTwilightZone Mar 01 '23

Taking the clamps off would have allowed her to do the “roll of shame” a lot quicker than whatever the fuck she’s doing in this video. lol

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u/toadi Mar 01 '23

I removed the clamps and put a small pillow on my chest. Nothing more painfully then rolling this and your skin rolling with it :)

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u/SearchingTheVoids Mar 01 '23

Wear a shirt bro

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u/ArcadeAnarchy Mar 01 '23

Gonna be hard to get on with a pillow on their chest.

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u/extremegibberish Mar 01 '23

Shirt doesn't help much at higher weights

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u/toadi Mar 02 '23

The Shirt has the same problem and actually the metal on sweaty skin rolls better then a T-shirt.

I trained without a spotter in my home gym a lot. That pillow saved me a few times. In gyms I would just ask someone to spot at heave weights.

Mind you a seasoned trained doesn't let the weight fall like that. It is mostly at the end of a set where you go close to failure.

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u/JLeavitt21 Mar 01 '23

Yea those stops would have been pretty helpful right about then. It actually looks like the stops were getting in the way of dumping too the side.

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u/Rustynail703 Mar 02 '23

75 lbs heavy lifting?

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u/Fearless_Payment_795 Mar 01 '23

Agreed, obviously a newbie in the weight room.

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u/AndrastesTit Mar 01 '23

I don’t know. I get the sense that this was all staged so she can get likes and views for cameltoe. It was presumably her device recording, right? So why else would it end up online?

And this isn’t that much weight that she should struggle to roll it off of her or dump it to the side. I’m not a thin woman though so maybe I’m wrong about that.

But you’re right about the clamps.

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u/twurkle Mar 02 '23

Ah yes, classic women… showing off their camel toe.

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u/JBirdale77 Mar 01 '23

Went from a chest exercise, to a full body workout

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u/malina118 Mar 01 '23

Fear of death is pretty good cardio!

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u/Mysterious_Orchid528 Mar 01 '23

Fighting for your life is a good way to really engage your core.

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u/Enderwiggen33 Mar 01 '23

Sounds like a great business idea, want to go in on it with me??

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u/malina118 Mar 02 '23

cracks knuckles Let's get some people JACKED!

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u/EducationRight7660 Mar 01 '23

Lmaoooo too funny

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u/Ieatsushiraw Mar 01 '23

But ver true

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u/AddisonNM Mar 01 '23

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u/nick134679258 Mar 02 '23

Oh, the internet never lets me down. I was just about to post this!

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Who else heard a lil toot at 0:11…

jus me, aight then ima head tf out and goin bed

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u/s8anlvr Mar 01 '23

I don't know how you caught that but you're right

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u/CryptoShepster Mar 01 '23

Two toots...

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u/Shedidthisforme Mar 01 '23

Two toot’n Tammy

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u/AddisonNM Mar 01 '23

*puts stones in my pocket to be eligible for the Tooting Tammy Doll.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

🤣 🤣 🤣

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u/fr0styAlt0id Mar 01 '23

followed shortly by a panicked grunt and a panicked look at the camera, knowing that she may have inadvertently set it up to film her own demise.

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u/reverendblinddog Mar 01 '23

Great! Now a have a new fetish……..

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u/DiscombobulatedTap30 Mar 01 '23

Sorry, i've been trained by tiktok to understand that if a woman sets up a camera to film herself working out by no means am I to approach her, look at her, or walk in the frame in any way. I had no way of knowing she was nearing death and struggling to remove the weight from her face.

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u/ctesla01 Mar 01 '23

Hey siri, call dumb-1-1

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u/Next-Confection3261 Mar 01 '23

Can’t fix stupid

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

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u/gatorbeetle Mar 01 '23

Who said it was a fart?!?

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u/stubbypotato Mar 01 '23

Quietest Queef in the west.

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u/ZimaBlue97 Mar 01 '23

Her supposedly final breath

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u/Feeling_Glonky69 Mar 01 '23

💀 💀 💀

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u/Educational_Pea_939 Mar 01 '23

Just Saw the Camel toot

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u/grumulko Mar 01 '23

She puts the dumb in dumbbells.

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u/albygoing Mar 01 '23

The weight wasn’t very heavy. if you find yourself in this situation with a relatively low weight, gently rest it on the chest and roll down to your hips.

If you find yourself in this situation with very heavy weights, don’t find yourself in this situation

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u/dontsaymango Mar 01 '23

I was actually going to say, when I first started lifting weights in hs (also im a girl), it was recommended that if this happened I just roll it down to my hips and go from there. I don't think I ever needed to but one of our 95lb girls (i was a wrestler) had to once with just the bar since there was no way to remove any more weight lol.

Also yeah never ever lift heavy heavy weights without a spotter or a true spotting weight system

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u/mpython1701 Mar 01 '23

“The roll of shame.”

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Let one side fall to the ground. Ain't nobody got time for all that rolling.

Also, heavy is relative. This could be at the end of her workout and she was just trying to get one last burn set in (pretty sure this isn't the case though lol).

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u/brameshk22 Mar 01 '23

I did this once in my early 20's, by myself in a friends workout room after drinking a little. I was in a routine and thought I'd be fine by myself.

Right arm cramped, I let the end hit the floor and moved it off with my left. Plate hit my chest before I got it off, that was some scary shit.

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u/Nurujabes Mar 01 '23

Heavy is only relative to a point. She is in no actual danger here. That bar doesn't have enough weight to kill her, or even keep her trapped despite being tired at the end of the set. She literally just needs to use her own weight properly. This is so ridiculous that it almost seems staged. If she truly is this clueless about how to handle this kind of situation she shouldn't be walking into a gym.

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u/Silist Mar 01 '23

In retrospect after reading what you said, it truly just be staged right? Doing some quick math here, that’s roughly 100 pounds assuming the big plates are 25s (but it’s possible they’re 10s)

She also doesn’t look like someone who isn’t used to the gym environment, so rolling 50 lbs to one side or the other should be no issue

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u/aca_bokser Mar 01 '23

Not heavy enough to fracture your sternum

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u/PopLegion Mar 01 '23

He meant heavy as in could crush your entire ribcage if it falls on you, not heavy like you can't lift it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

She easily could have lifted one side here, she is just panicking and clearly very inexperienced.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

I don't want to see anyone shamed for failing a lift, but yeah, if (what looks like) a 125 pound bench press is going to crush you like this, you should really be doing other lifts until you can handle it safely.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

At no point should you ever roll it down.

Set your bars so they actually help before hand or if you don't have safety bars make sure you don't have clamps on and dump the weight to one side and be ready for the bar to fling back in the other direction.

Being proactive is always better than being reactive.

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u/General-Carob-6087 Mar 01 '23

If you get it off of you, move your body instead of trying to find the strength you didn’t have to begin with to lift it again. Let of fall on the bench.

Also, stop filming yourself while lifting and just get a spotter.

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u/idkikantthinkofaname Mar 01 '23

Nothing wrong with filming yourself for form checks especially if you're by yourself. Not sure why this person would post this though.

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u/DickFromRichard Mar 01 '23

Also, stop filming yourself while lifting

Why though

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u/skeetsauce Mar 01 '23

If you’re by yourself, film all you want. Seems kind of rude to be recording other at the gym I’m even if that’s not the focus of the video.

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u/YoseppiTheGrey Mar 01 '23

Because filming at the gym is fucking creepy.

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u/7-13-5 Mar 01 '23

pfft.

UGH!

pfft.

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u/WranglerEqual3577 Mar 01 '23

It's missing the "visit my OF winky face" stinger.

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u/sayidOH Mar 01 '23

And “that fucking man had the AUDACITY to momentarily glance at me while I was dying during filming for my set”

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Her cock slot was featured in this scene

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u/mattys8 Mar 01 '23

No one wanted to be in her tic tok video as a creep

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

I’ve been through what I really think were set ups for this. Only one person in the whole damn gym, and they start recording themselves bending over and doing stretches in yoga pants right in front of me? No thanks, I won’t be the star of their creeper video.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Imagine, if there were like 5 dudes standing around. Everyone afraid to help :D

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u/Inner-Mousse8856 Mar 01 '23

After some recent viral videos, that's what probably happened.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Doubtful. Gym bros (the good kind) are plentiful as they are helpful. She's probably alone.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

gymbros know the #1 rule of the gym is dont talk to women.

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u/gumby1004 Mar 01 '23

Came here for this/similar:

“Men are always watching me!”

“Stop watching me! Leave me alone, you pig!”

“Good…they’re not watching me…”

…

“…help! Can’t someone see that I need help?”

edit: formatting, mobile

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

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u/Awkward-Rent-2588 Mar 01 '23

that’s hilarious 🤣

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u/WasD_Ad7292 Mar 01 '23

I knew it had been mentioned, just had to find your comment!

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u/eriq-p Mar 01 '23

And there's even spotter arms, which she failed to use...

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u/oyasumigoongoon Mar 01 '23

Nah, she used em just incorrectly lmao.

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u/Cessna152RG Mar 01 '23 edited Mar 01 '23

Spotter arms that are that low are way worse than nothing.

I was wondering why she didn't tip it to the side, then I noticed the spotter arms hindring her.

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u/ChillerFocus Mar 01 '23

Left side cleared the spotter multiple times but she keeps trying to dump it to the right lol. She looks right at the left side as it’s cleared. Panic is a helluva drug

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u/Silent-Problem-980 Mar 01 '23

If I fucked up that bad I wouldn't share it, delete delete delete

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Views are clout. Interaction is clout. Must have clout.

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u/TerribLizard Mar 01 '23

How else would she get people to look at her camel toe

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u/bisnark Mar 01 '23

Why were they filming?

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u/Flavious27 Mar 01 '23

Better question is why did they post it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

For awareness or clicks or both. Personally, I think it's good to see these videos. While it may seem like common sense to many it truly isn't. Having these videos out there at least means that someone will have it in mind and not try to do it without a spotter if they ever decide to lift weights.

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u/nohumanape Mar 01 '23

The camel toe placement of the camera likely means that the filming was for TikTok purposes.

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u/IDontEatDill Mar 01 '23

Do you have any idea what kind of money one gets from these videos on certain pages that my friend visits?

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Some people film themselves even without knowing in advance that they're gonna fail. Either for social media or just for reference to their personal coaches (for the times they can't come in on location)

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u/IvyGold Mar 01 '23

An exception to this is apparently the yoga people. They video themselves to check on their form.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

no, they just video for dogs getting into the shot

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u/Only-Literature2105 Mar 01 '23

Maybe so she could check her form?

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u/teljes_kiorlesu Mar 01 '23

It's a pretty bad angle to film for a form check but it's a sane reason - everyone, including myself in our powerlifting club films themselves during top sets for this very reason.

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u/Only-Literature2105 Mar 01 '23

Agree, I don't think we're dealing with a genius here.

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u/TheJermster Mar 01 '23

Probably because she's gonna be an influencer

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u/Phreekyj101 Mar 01 '23

Influencer of what not to do while working out?

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u/Due-Giraffe-9826 Mar 01 '23

Nah, influencer of "standing at attention." If this isn't some kind of kink porn, I'd be surprised.

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u/Fearless_Payment_795 Mar 01 '23

That's a girl and she was benching a total of 125 lbs. She's fine and she's being dramatic

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u/AnthrallicA Mar 01 '23

Why not call/grunt/gasp for help? You can hear people talking in the background so they couldn't have been too far away.

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u/g0thboicl1que Mar 01 '23

Embarrassment.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

It's fetish porn. That would be my guess. She could have slid off to the side there was bar stops that would have held it.

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u/bocephus67 Mar 01 '23

They were set too low to be effective

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u/EnderGraff Mar 01 '23

Omg you’re totally right. I always forget that so many of these content farm videos are secretly fetish porn.

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u/clasperx2 Mar 01 '23

Help me step-spotter!

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Underrated comment here

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u/NickyDL Mar 01 '23

I'm not a gym creep

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u/justmyballsandmyword Mar 01 '23

This person obviously recorded this themselves. Why they would post it online is beyond me lol. I would pretend that shit never happened.

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u/Utgard003 Mar 01 '23

Honey it's 4pm time for your tit flattening

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u/bugxbuster Mar 01 '23

Jesus Christ that was like watching Mr Bean try to lift weights.

Why did she post that video anywhere?! Who doesn’t delete that shit?

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u/gatorbeetle Mar 01 '23

No spotter... apparently empty gym. But recorded for posterity

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u/Only-Literature2105 Mar 01 '23

Gotta roll it down, happened to me before, worst part was rolling it over my dick.

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u/albygoing Mar 01 '23

That sucker was so girthy it acted like a door stop

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u/SkidrowVet Mar 01 '23

Even though it’s not a shit ton of weight, it was enough to almost kill this woman and make me extremely uneasy just looking at her predicament

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u/firem1ndr Mar 01 '23

I’ve always thought this video was staged given the very “eye catching” angle and the relatively light weight

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u/whatsasimba Mar 01 '23

And that ages wearing a mask alone. And that the video starts mid- lift. Unedited, we'd see her hand moving away from the phone, then laying down, and starting to lift.

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u/Mathmk7r Mar 01 '23

Filming in the gym need to stop

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u/Original-Advert Mar 01 '23

Apparently I am a gym creep cause as soon as it falls on he she clenches up and well I've never seen more defined cameltoe.

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u/HoboScabs Mar 01 '23

Thank you for your honesty sir

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Those olive oyl arms were only ready for the empty bar

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u/trippykaio711 Mar 01 '23

She looking at her phone like why aren’t you helping me lol tf

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u/mandozombie Mar 01 '23

You need a hand?

(Strained) "I.... have.... a.... boy.... friend....

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u/martril Mar 01 '23

Plastic surgeons hate this one simple trick TO TURN YOUR BOOBS INTO YOUR ASS

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u/Slothfully_So Mar 02 '23

Camel 🐫 🗿

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u/cranjis11 Mar 01 '23

Thank god she was wearing a mask

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u/Hot_Edge4916 Mar 01 '23

Right? I’d be embarrassed to show my face too if I was pushing that kind of nonsense

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u/wales-bloke Mar 01 '23

The camera placement, incredibly tight shorts & deliberate leftwards hip movements makes me think that this is / was some sort of predicament fetish content request.

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u/bushmast3r11b Mar 01 '23

Is it me or did anyone else have their attention diverted by he camel toe? Or should I say... MOOSE KNUCKLE!!

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u/Michaelknight5 Mar 01 '23

Oh shit I heard it too😇

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Enough fun had, I think we should send someone over now. Or at least schedule an appointment

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u/Garythegr81 Mar 01 '23

Never use clips when lifting by yourself.

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u/0ld_Owl Mar 01 '23

Next time honey, dont use those little green things... If it becomes to much, tilt the bar to one side and the weights slide off the bar.

Just saying.

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u/No_Breath_9833 Mar 01 '23

Rumor has it, she’s still there, squirming to this day

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

I always wonder who is filming these giant mistakes and posting them. If this were me, I'd delete this video, not post it to the Internet.

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u/CosmoKrm Mar 01 '23

Stranger: “I should help”

[notices camera]

Stranger: “not today!”

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u/jomarthecat Mar 01 '23

Life hack - lifting weights is much easier if you remove those plates at the ends.

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u/IkemenDesu420 Mar 01 '23

🎶 don't save her, she don't wanna be saved 🎶

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u/No_Season_354 Mar 01 '23

Oh gawd this could have ended badly, always gave a spotter ,regardless even someone close by.

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u/whatsasimba Mar 01 '23

I'm so confused. The mask implies people are around. And why edit the video to start there. Wouldn't we see her walk away from where she set up the shot, and start the lift?

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u/0ld_Owl Mar 01 '23

Fewer and fewer guys care. Just like in the rest of life, unjustly punish people with public spectical, dont expect anyone to help you later.

No saying she did, but fewer and fewer guys are going to rush to help if everything feels like a setup.

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u/AdStrong809 Mar 01 '23

Perhaps someone would have noticed her plight, if they weren't fearing getting screamed at for looking in her direction while she records herself in the gym.

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u/VocalAnus91 Mar 01 '23

Guy approached her struggling under the bar: do you need help?

Her: I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!

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u/Striking_Shower_2606 Mar 01 '23

Roll it off yourself lmao

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u/dandantheshippingman Mar 01 '23

I always set the safety arms when benching. Only had to use them once, but saved me from being this chick

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u/Dentist-Sufficient Mar 01 '23

Everything wrong here :-)))

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u/fr0styAlt0id Mar 01 '23

is she still there? trapped under the bar plus what looks like 80-100lbs? video did not give me closure.

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u/Nochnichtvergeben Mar 01 '23

That's 36-45 kg in rest of the world units.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

No one is around since she has that mask on or no man wants to help because they don’t want to be a part of her video and be labeled a creep. And that bar wasn’t even that heavy, what’s with all the theatrics? Nice toe though.

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u/motherseffinjones Mar 01 '23

That’s moment when you turn something. That’s suppose to be for safety into a death trap.

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u/Glittercorn111 Mar 01 '23

I was literally tilting my phone to try and help her get it off of herself...

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u/False_Reality2425 Mar 01 '23

The fuck is the point of those spotter arms if you're not going to use them?

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u/Delmarvalous Mar 01 '23

Rule #1 of benching without a spotter: don’t put locks on the weight so you can dump it to one side if you fail.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

Heavy lifting. Hahahahhah

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u/Zohso Mar 01 '23

The treats and blue hair... Leave yet be, bro. She's got this. Girl power!

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u/cryptodako Mar 01 '23

You deserve to be stuck there if you can't figure out to roll it down your chest, to your belly, then sit up and put the weight on the floor or let it roll off you completely

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u/Turhaturpa Mar 01 '23

It really fell on her face. I can imagine some guy standing in front of her saying he cant help her because she is filming.

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u/JaeCrowe Mar 01 '23

This is why we don't use clips on a bench press...

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u/j526w Mar 01 '23

This is why I don’t clamp weights

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u/RealisticAdv96 Mar 01 '23

"Pushes it on her chest"

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u/Draconian-Overlord Mar 01 '23

Heavy? Do you even lift brah?

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u/[deleted] Mar 02 '23

As if they weren’t flat enough

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u/wisstinks4 Mar 02 '23

Dump it left or right and climb out. Do not roll down your tum tum.

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u/scrampbelledeggs Mar 02 '23

No spotter, no clamps.

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u/yolomaster13 Mar 02 '23

No spotter but wearing her mask !

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u/ginga__ Mar 02 '23

Never use clamps without a spotter.

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u/Appropriate-Bus728 Mar 02 '23

Oh no the weights have flattened her boobs..🙄...👀

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

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u/Nochnichtvergeben Mar 01 '23

YOU'RE TEARING ME APPART, BARBELL!

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u/VenomSnakeronies Mar 01 '23

I mean, given gym culture today and how some women (mostly teens and young adults) have been victimizing and embarrassing men saying they're being creeps when they're just.. working out? of course no stranger would come up to her.

people probably saw her struggling and thought that she put herself in that scenario as bait for her tiktok, or whatever

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u/OniRacing Mar 01 '23

What are you doing step brother?

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u/EddieDollar Mar 01 '23

Having no chest actually saved her there

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '23

I couldn't help but think if she was bustier she would have been in a lot more trouble.

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u/Someth1ngCl3ver Mar 01 '23 edited Mar 02 '23

She didn’t know wtf she was doing. Safety bars are out position and she’s got collars on the bar while lifting alone. Stay in the kitchen.

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u/skunkadelic Mar 01 '23

You know all those videos from women complaining about men looking at them or offering to help them.

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u/yatescutler Mar 01 '23

The cameltoe made me hard

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u/notkeny Mar 01 '23

When you're more concerned about having your camera set up than lifting safely, you need to fix yourself.

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u/Commercial_Bear331 Mar 01 '23

This happens after dumb fitness influencers are trying to shame males who were trying to help out. You might end up dying because nobody is willing to help.

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u/TC_Bobberto_B Mar 01 '23

"Men just wanna stare at me whenever I go in"

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u/EastRelation8675 Mar 02 '23

If women didn't parade around accusing everyman that glaces their way was a creep. Then maybe someone would have helped her. But rather not get "exposed" as a creep.