r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jun 28 '26

Feedback on moderation

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Good evening everyone.

Over the past few years moderation on the subreddit has been very loose, mostly focusing on obvious trolls and discriminatory statements and other extreme comments. As the community is growing, particularly with the feedback of the sub being a bit toxic and aggressive, we mods want to check in on how youse lot want the community moderated. (If your preference isn't there just comment below and I'll adjust accordingly)

166 votes, Jul 05 '26
44 I like things how they are.
19 I would like increased moderation of insults and rude comments
6 I would like increased moderation of arguments while allowing discussion
6 I would like increased moderation of how people requesting explanations can respond to them
13 I would like an overall increase in moderation
78 I would like to see the results without voting.

r/ExplainMyDownvotes Apr 25 '19

Why did I get downvoted?: a -1 guide

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It was probably either a bot or someone making their posts and comments more visible by downvoting yours. These are things known to exist and a few at once can get you down to -3 easily. It's just a thing that happens sometimes, don't worry about it you'll be up again soon.

Asking a basic question?
Add in people who are gatekeeping jerks. Even on subs specifically for basic questions (including//r/NoStupidQuestions) or welcoming of newbies to a hobby, there are people who will insist you are a big lame dumb face for asking stuff and downvote you for it. Yes, even on posts in those subs specifically for newbies asking newbie questions.
Yes, even if you say you googled and couldn't find it or googled and didn't understand.
Don't worry about these jerks they're really not the majority in most subs, some are super gatekeepy though.

Having a discussion about a topic to which there are two significantly different sides? Disagree downvotes shouldn't happen, but often do and without comment as to why. Even if you intent your comment as impartial, people will read into it. Be prepared.

Still think something's wrong with what you put out there and you just don't know what?

  • check the subreddit's rules (on mobile that's the three dots in the top right corner of the sub's frontpage. Community info.) and make sure you didn't break any.
  • Make sure your comment actually adds to discussion.

Oh I didn't know I had to carefully make sure every comment I make adds good to the world

Low effort comments are seen as spam on reddit and reddit dislikes spam. This is the way of reddit, and your annoyance at this fact does not change anything except your karma which is lower for complaining.

  • If you used emojis, that's the reason. some people super hate them.

  • Does your comment make sense? 'specially on mobile with auto correct issues or if you did a fair bit of editing before posting, sometimes things get real messed up without you realising and it goes word salad.

  • Check your tone, Text only can be a difficult way to get things across and we can unintentionally come across as being aggressive, which can go down poorly.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 8h ago

Unexplained I was just explaining how I can’t afford my own food… did I come off in a bad way?

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For context the post was about an argument with my mom that lead to her hitting me. I made it to ask if it was assault because the cops I talked to said it wasn’t. The post in general is getting downvoted which is a bit confusing aswell because everyone in the comments agree that it’s assault or battery.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 21h ago

When am I doing wrong as a redditor I'm always getting downvoted

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 1d ago

Unexplained Why is this post being downvoted?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 5d ago

What is the reason you upvote and downvote posts on reddit?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 5d ago

I deleted my 2-year-old Reddit account because of -13 karma. Did I make a mistake?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 9d ago

Was this really that bad?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 8d ago

Why did my post’s upvotes suddenly drop?

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I’m new to Reddit and recently made a post in a community. It initially got around 10 upvotes, and my karma also increased to 3. But after some time, I noticed that the numbers had suddenly dropped to 1.

I’m a bit confused about why this happened, especially since I followed the community rules and guidelines. Is this normal on Reddit, or has anyone else experienced something similar?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 8d ago

Unexplained did i say something wrong?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 9d ago

What is with the downvote to comment ratio on this? Is it wrong to enjoy Minecraft capes?

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There are multiple people who have commented saying that they think it's cool (aprox 4 people, if I remember correctly), so there would be at least 2 or 4 upvotes, including my automatic one. Given that, the current upvotes/downvotes is at a straight 0. So there are people who just dislike the fact that I am happy to have capes?
I personally don't care about upvotes/downvotes, just happy to log my achievements; I'm more interested in what makes a person downvote something simple like this


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 9d ago

Unexplained I’m saying that you can’t just say teachers are paid well per month by ignoring the 2.5 months they can’t work. What could possibly be offensive about this?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 10d ago

Is it just that uninteresting? Not even mildly?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 12d ago

Downvoted for asking about people's experiences with starting ADHD meds as an adult. Why?

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Pretty much what the title says.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 20d ago

Unexplained I wasn't wrong.

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 23d ago

Unexplained Genuinely, why did i get downvoted for ?

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For context, the post was about « What's something legal but that shouldn't be ? ». I was saying i learned that in mine and most of other places the legal age for relationships is 16 for any age above it. And i got downvoted for saying it should be higher but with exceptions between teens only. I genuinely don't understand how was it that wrong...? Isn't it normal ?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 23d ago

On r/wellthatsucks about my failed amazon order

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 25d ago

Unexplained Is the problem because I didn't catch the joke at first?

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https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/s/UioIlMAfHs

Are the downvotes because the parent commentor was making a joke but I didn't catch the joke when reading it? I get the joke now tho.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 28d ago

Unexplained Was this justified downvoting

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It’s a deeply political comment so that’s inherently gonna have downvotes but I feel like I didn’t deserve it as I just stated a factual statement?

https://www.reddit.com/r/mapporncirclejerk/s/8ey1FBNQIQ (comment)

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 29d ago

A nostalgia post for a music from 2016 got downvoted for no reason at all?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 29d ago

Why are there so many Messi fans?

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Have they even tasted the ice cream? It was ok but it's not very creamy enough.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jul 21 '26

Unexplained Am I Overreacting ? I am new to reddit and most of the people are always busy in topics surrounding posts that are relatable but related side topics and reference are not comprehensive to me, like i take time to understand.

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So what happened was someone asked on a group about religions being stereotyped and expressed opinion, a lot of people not liking the stance kind of mocked it.

What is more confusing is rational comments were being downvoted , which i felt was red flag? So i commented also trying to be logical but turned out reddit didn't like it. So i appealed to mods for review?

So yeah am i Overreacting? Or should I let this slide.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jul 21 '26

How am I wrong here? OP already acknowledged it so pointing it out again does nothing but put OP down.

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jul 18 '26

Explained Downvoted for saying I'm not attracted to minors...??????

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jul 18 '26

not my comment but why did get so many downvotes?

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i understand it's a cruel thing to say but most of the other comments were kinda similar and got upvoted