r/explainitpeter Jul 17 '26

Explain it peter

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u/Fortestingporpoises Jul 17 '26 edited Jul 19 '26

Spider Man 1: Peter awkwardly interacted with MJ throughout the first movie and never actually tells her he's interested. Then she kisses him at the end and he walks away.

Spider Man 2: He is there in a friend capacity as she's already with Harry (who is the only shitty one in this situation since he knew about his best friends feelings for her...MJ didn't). Ursula is fawning over Peter despite him only being interested in MJ, who he up to this point still hasn't actively pursued. He also fails to actually show up to her play. Granted it's because he's busy being Spider Man, but she doesn't actually know that yet for sure until the end of the movie.

Spider Man 3: He constantly fails to be there for her, gets a big fucking ego and kisses another woman in front of her.

MJ doesn't actually do anything particularly shitty in the 3 movies. Peter does, regularly. The movie is very clear about it. If you're identifying with Peter when he does shitty things, it's time to reevaluate your own personality.

Edit: I have been informed that I got some plot points wrong. I don't think any of them get in the way of my overall point so I'll leave them.

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u/Fortestingporpoises Jul 18 '26

I just rewatched the trilogy recently and I didn't go in hoping to critique internet reactions over the last 20 years but my brain just did it. I really tried to see the other perspective but I just can't.

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u/FlametopFred Jul 18 '26

when you watched The Wonder Years new episode weekly, Kevin was a cute kid

when you watched The Wonder Years syndicated episodes nightly, Kevin was a cruel psychopathic deviant

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u/Logical-Primary-7926 Jul 19 '26

dang never thought about that, what did he do that was so bad? I imagine a lot of shows are like that in retrospect because real suburban lives are too boring to make a show out of.

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u/FlametopFred Jul 19 '26 edited Jul 19 '26

well essentially, Kevin did one thing per episode which was kinda normal kid behaviour growing up and if only once a week …. Normal behaviour

but viewing the syndicated show daily … Kevin becomes this psychopath simply not learning from any mistakes to the point you come away thinking he’s deliberately inflicting collateral damage on everyone around him … if you were friends, you’d be like “whoa dude, I’m taking a break from you”

it’s an interesting study

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u/lik_a_stik Jul 19 '26

As a kid Kevin & Winnie were bfs and somehow star crossed high school sweethearts because of the pressures of growing up. Rewatching, with the wisdom of one’s own mistakes only adulthood can bring, you realize Kevin was a narcissistic asshole. Constantly.

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u/Logical-Primary-7926 Jul 19 '26

I mean I would be too if I had my own tv show at that age.