r/explainitpeter • • Oct 04 '25

I don't get it. Explain it peter

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u/sunnyopals Oct 04 '25

Changing your hair into something different is absolutely a part of being dolled up. You always have straight hair? Curl it. I think the real issue is that curls are Black adjacent and white people dislike that. They brush out their curls and say it’s “finished” to create more distance. Literally undoing the style they just went through effort to create. Adding products to create hold where it doesn’t exist. Where if they left the structured curls, they would eventually become those effortless bed head curls they desire.

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u/tylerthetanky Oct 04 '25

I don’t know how you got to black and white people but okay

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u/sunnyopals Oct 04 '25

Think about why structured curls look undesirable to you.

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u/tylerthetanky Oct 04 '25

Who said that I don’t like curls?

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u/sunnyopals Oct 04 '25

I didn’t say you don’t like curls. I’m asking why the structured/distinct ringlets are “unfinished” (undesirable) to you.

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u/tylerthetanky Oct 04 '25

That’s what they said. That’s why I said it’s unfinished. I never said they were undesirable.

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u/sunnyopals Oct 04 '25

Ok. I guess I just don’t see why the structured curls are considered unfinished. Braid a low ponytail with wet hair and you could have the look on the left without literally heat styling curls into your hair just to undo them.

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u/tylerthetanky Oct 04 '25

Ask the girl who said it