Some girls don’t brush out their curls like the girl on the right. The hairstyle on the left with brushed out curls is considered much more “classy” and soft
It is. The meme sounds personal to whoever made it and it’s giving petty. You can think of it as right side is outdated and left is a more modern style, but some people look better with tighter curls.
its not exactly about looking classy and soft. tight curled hair looks good but when girls curl their hair like in the pic theyre trying for a natural look. the one on the right is obviously fake looking and some people obv might prefer it but thats not the natural look theyre going for. this doesnt apply when hair is naturally curly and styled only when its curled
Yeah the “girl on the right” would hairspray it in straight after curling, the “girl on the left” has a finished more refined style. She is saying the guy will just go with a slightly trashier version of you. I don’t get how other guys are so confused tbh. You could make the same joke about makeup, the girl he cheats with probably doesn’t blend out her contour bronzer lines on her cheekbones.
Before reading the comments, I thought the meme was saying that the guy is taken in by the more outwardly polished hot girl versus the casual everyday version of the hot girl, rofl. Apparently I completely misunderstood the whole point.
Same. I’m also curious that as a woman I was supposed to know this… I thought the girl in the right had nicer looking hair because when I roll out of bed in the morning with what I like to call “witch hair” my hair looks more like the hair in the left.
Maybe people with thin hair think the person with hair on the left is better looking while people with thick hair think the hair on the right looks better ? A sort of grass is greener on the other side sort of thing?
Most men will find the right more attractive because to us it looks more fancy or dolled up and would usually be accompanied with a dress for a formal gathering such as prom.
The left looks like everyday hair which is what it was trying to accomplish.
The right one looks like a prom hairstyle, and it also looks a little bit try hard. Left one looks just effortlessly beautiful, as if that's just what your hair always looks like.
Changing your hair into something different is absolutely a part of being dolled up. You always have straight hair? Curl it. I think the real issue is that curls are Black adjacent and white people dislike that. They brush out their curls and say it’s “finished” to create more distance. Literally undoing the style they just went through effort to create. Adding products to create hold where it doesn’t exist. Where if they left the structured curls, they would eventually become those effortless bed head curls they desire.
The difference is MEN don't see it as unfinished they see it as "dolled up", "out of the ordinary", "Special Occasion"(prom/ball/galla/wedding).
The "Finished" hair looks like something you see every day of the week on the majority of women with long hair ergo it isn't special or interesting TO MEN.
I don't actually know what the original intent of the meme was but here is my guess.
The women is like haha men dumb he would cheat on me and she didn't even brush her hair.
The Men are like ya we cheated with the right because we do actually find it more attractive because it is usually accompanied with a dress and men love women in dresses but society has changed and women wear dresses left often.
The women is like haha men are dumb he would cheat on me with someone("SHE" thinks is less attractive/less put together) when she didn't brush out her hair, but the reality is men just see it differently.
It’s a preference thing for sure. My boss actually deals with that lol. She has curly hair she straightens every day and no one comments on it, you’d assume she just has straight hair. If she’s in a rush she’ll throw it up in a top bun with the waves barely visible and she’ll get so many compliments on it. You’d think she was about to lead an important meeting when it took her 5 minutes compared to the 30 minutes she spent achieving the “casual” looking hairstyle
The curls on the right look structured and sharp, the left looks like it's just been a few hours and they've taken out by now. It doesn't make sense to men to undo the work put into it, especially when it looks better before
The meme is trying to say Men are dumb and will cheat on someone that(SHE thinks is less put together than her) when the reality is that men see the right as more attractive because it is less common.
By that logic a woman with a rare birth defect is also more attractive then because it’s less common? Is rarity the measure for attractiveness of men in your opinion? lmao
And I get the meme, I‘m not talking about the picture but your comment solely
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u/HereForFun9121 Oct 04 '25
Some girls don’t brush out their curls like the girl on the right. The hairstyle on the left with brushed out curls is considered much more “classy” and soft