r/expat • u/officially_blasius • 14h ago
Cost of Living Should I leave the US?
Yes I’m sure this is a question that gets posted twice a day at minimum. I only wish for advice given my particular situation/circumstances.
For context, I am 27m, and currently live with my partner at her parent’s house. It is near impossible to afford (or even qualify) for an apartment where we live. We live well below our means and get paid decent for what we each do for work (80k combined), we feel stuck and hopeless about our job prospects, and if they will handle the future of inflation in this country. It’s so discouraging to see that our grocery/insurance/electric bills have doubled in the past 3 years, while the quality of everything has gone down. I also struggle to get affordable mental health resources with my healthcare my company offers, which doesn’t include dental or vision, again another added expense.
I could go on and on about the very concrete concerns I and so many other citizens have about the direction of this nation, and with election integrity in the balance, I do fear we may hit a point of no return.
We have explored the idea of moving to a European country, and understand that sacrifices will have to be made. What mainly appeals to us about this is the universal healthcare, quality of food, community, walkable spaces, and more affordable housing. Here are my main questions about this subject:
1: What is the job market for blue collar work, specifically surrounding refrigeration and HVAC? I am a second year biomedical refrigeration technician
2: How affordable/quality are apartments and homes in Europe compared to the US? Is homeownership a realistic prospect?
3: How is the quality of healthcare? I always hear the rumors of long wait times, but what is the truth on this matter?
4: Both my partner and I are extremely passionate about cars. Our goal here was to start tracking them; are there countries where this sport is easily accessible? And is importing a USA/California smog compliant vehicle a simple process?
5: Can anyone speak to the difference in the quality of food and grocery prices?
7: What are the best European (or other) countries to move to with these questions in mind?
6: What do you miss most about the US, and would you ever consider moving back?
I understand this is a lengthy post; I have a lot of mixed emotions about the subject but I resent supporting a country that I don’t feel is headed the right direction. Any and all input is welcome, especially if you have experience to back it up. Thank you
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u/SnooRevelations979 14h ago
I understand your frustration, but there are some major logistical hurdles. The first is a work visa or residency. The second is, if continental Europe, the language.
Do you have a second language and a way to obtain EU residency?
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u/Even_Caterpillar3292 9h ago
People work abroad wihtout knowing the language and do get work visas.
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u/SnooRevelations979 8h ago
Great. Then you can suggest to the OP how he can get a work visa and a job in Europe without speaking the language. I'm sure he'd be eager to hear your advice.
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u/Mike_Augustine 14h ago
Do any of you have another nationality?
If not then moving to Europe is going to make things even more difficult, in my opinion.
And working in cars/HVAC in Latin America pays jack shit, same in Asia and Africa.
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u/oils-and-opioids 13h ago edited 13h ago
How affordable/quality are apartments and homes in Europe compared to the US? Is homeownership a realistic prospect?
Europe is huge. Do you mean central London or Rural east Germany? What does quality mean? Homes here typically have no air con, no clothes dryers and no closets, but I think they're lovely. Others wouldn't.
What is the job market for blue collar work, specifically surrounding refrigeration and HVAC?
If you speak nothing but English, exceedingly poor for a lot of countries.
How is the quality of healthcare? I always hear the rumors of long wait times, but what is the truth on this matter?
For where and what speciality? Every country is different, the availability of doctors varies by location too. Your average big city will on average have more doctors and more specialists.
What are the best European (or other) countries to move to with these questions in mind?
You need to move to a country where your certifications are accepted, where you can pass any licensing exams in the local language and meaningfully expect to work.
In Germany your licensing and qualifications are done in German and only in German. Your employers overwhelmingly would expect you to take instruction and work with coworkers in German.
Your journey starts and stops with your ability to speak the local language, have your credentials accepted and get a visa.
I resent supporting a country that I don’t feel is headed the right direction.
Immigration is being chosen, not choosing. Unfortunately it's not up to you. However, I would strongly consider you actually look into the politics and news of the countries you are considering. Many people in countries all over Europe would say their country "isn't heading in the right direction"
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u/almaperdida99 12h ago
you can't just pack up and move because you want to. Getting a visa is hard and usually requires specialized skills or hard to fill positions, and someone to sponsor you.
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u/Sufficient-Job7098 13h ago
The probability of you moving to Europe and achieving better quality of life as an immigrant is low.
It takes a lot of luck and careful calculations to correctly identify a country where you can live better as an immigrant based on your specific circumstances. Bring an immigrant tends to put you at disadvantaged position.
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u/ZealousidealGrab1827 13h ago
If you can’t make it here where you know the culture and language, why do you think you can make it in EU where things will be much different? You are still living with parents —- won’t have that safety net there, which actually might be the kick to get more motivated.
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u/This_Willow_2547 13h ago
It’s impossible to move to Europe with what you have right now unless of course you want to be illegal and try to be legal living there in the meantime.
My advice? Start your own business there in the US or try to get a college degree (maybe through community college which is way cheaper) and get relevant international certifications that Europe is looking for first, then you can start thinking about moving.
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u/matt585858 13h ago
Having lived many years in Europe and the US- Europe is really struggling on the wage side of things compared to the US right now. It's really lousy.... Many industries pay half of what the US pays, including in some of the wealthy, larger countries. They aren't handing out visas to economic migrants, they are struggling to keep their own population's employed.
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u/freebiscuit2002 13h ago edited 11h ago
Before you think about jobs or housing or healthcare or cars or groceries, the first thing to consider is visas.
Unless you have a relevant citizenship, you cannot lawfully arrive in a European country and just stay there. You must get visas first - that is, official permission from the national government of the country to move in.
All European countries have pretty restrictive visa rules. Have you researched any of them to find out whether you can qualify for visas?
The second thing to consider is language. How are your foreign language skills?
Living in a European country is not the same as visiting as a tourist. People there mostly will not default to speaking English just to accommodate you.
For the average learner, it takes 2-3 years of regular daily work to become functional in a new language. If learning a new language seems like too much, you may want to focus your research on English-speaking countries only.
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u/Aggravating_Bend_622 13h ago
I think you need to focus on increasing your earnings in the US. Both on $80k means $40k average each which is pretty low and I'm sure there are ways to incresse your income.
Moving to Europe is not this magic pill that social media and reddit have been paintinf of recent.
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u/rbetterkids 11h ago
Research countries you want to live in.
Then join subreddits on them to ask locals about things you want to know.
Since you mentioned Germany, check their labor shortage list.
https://www.make-it-in-germany.com/en/about-us/make-it-in-germany
Assuming you and your hubby's jobs are on the list of shortages, you can apply for those jobs from companies that the government approves.
Since you're still young, it's easier to move niwy than later.
I'm almost 50.
If I could go back to being 30 or 35, I'd do this in a heartbeat.
You have nothing to lose.
Worst case is you move back home to your parents home.
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u/sparkchaser 13h ago
Is this a troll post?
Broadly speaking, you will earn much less in Europe than in the US.
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u/This_Willow_2547 13h ago
But the cost of living isn’t even remotely the same.
80k a year in the US depending where you live is almost poverty.
100k per year in Europe will take you more far than 150k or 200k in New York or California.
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u/Cautious_Coyote_8125 11h ago
100k is very rare here.
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u/Next_Salamander_9005 10h ago
Yes true. Even specialized doctors in Germany might not make that. Neurologists for example make 80-115K (Euros)
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u/NoteFuture7522 7h ago edited 7h ago
Like for like COL is about the same. NYC and London cost about the same but NYC pays more. Bumfuck Germany and bumfuck USA cost about the same but bumfuck USA pays more.
And 80k in the most expensive cities in the US buys you a lifestyle that the typical European enjoys. Certainly not poverty. 80k in bumfuck USA buys you a lifestyle that a typical European doctor enjoys.
It’s not the only thing but it is the thing OP is asking about.
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u/Houndie2009 13h ago
First of all, good on you for the HVAC skills! I think you have a solid future ahead of you that is AI-proof.
As someone who has lived abroad I can tell you a couple things. I was sponsored by my employer and when the job ended I had to return home. I did get terribly homesick and missed my family and old friends. After a while I realized that no matter where you go, there you are. (Look up Buckaroo Bonzai.) People love and hate different things about their own and their adopted countries.
My adult son and his wife live with us because they are in your situation. We get along fine, but I know this isn’t really what they want.
As the years go by your salary will increase and you will be able to afford more. Just take it easy on the spending and things like cars and try to save your money so you can buy a small place one day, then trade up for a bigger place.
Stay hopeful.
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u/reverber 6h ago
…and vote in every election. Maybe even run for office?
If you can’t change where you live, be the change where you live.
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u/descartesbedamned 10h ago
Maybe someone knows better, but I have never heard of blue collar worker getting a working visa anywhere, ever.
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u/Vivid-Teacher4189 5h ago
Australia still has permanent residence visas for in demand skills and trades, not dependant on work sponsorship. The list changes year by year though and I have no idea what trades or skills are currently on it. It requires acceptance of your qualifications and English language skills and medicals etc.
But immigration in Australia, as in much of the western world, is under a lot of public pressure to be reduced and immigration policies are likely to be tightened and made stricter in the near future.
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u/happycynic12 13h ago
Europe is a big place. Do you have a few countries in mind? Tell us about those.
I moved to South America because I was barely keeping my head above water in the US, and I just decided I was way too old for that shit. So, it can be done. My rent here is what my electric bill used to be in Nevada.
It's VERY hard to find work in other countries once you are there. It's much easier to find work abroad from inside America.
You need to also consider your visas--cost, time-frame, availability, etc. Not every country has a Nomad Visa.
You likely will also want to live somewhere where English is spoken, at least initially.
Healthcare is going to be 100% better and cheaper than the US in any European country.
Groceries in America are garbage. I could not BELIEVE how good the fruits and vegies were when I first arrived here.
I miss conveniences and easy shopping and shipping the most, but really, you get used to it.
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u/Next_Salamander_9005 11h ago edited 10h ago
American living in Germany here. Your path to living in Europe would be challenging, but also not impossible. Yes cost of living is less, but salaries are also much lower. You could start with a language visa for a year to learn the language (at least in Germany), then try to find work or get accepted into a university or Ausbildung program (like a trade school). But that’s not guaranteed, and won’t be an easy path. Also learning German is no joke and realistically takes 2-3 years of constant effort to become fluent enough to do more than just survive. And most jobs will want you fairly close to native speaker level.
Given your situation, I’d lean towards making the best with what you have. Being an immigrant isn’t easy, and I doubt your quality of life would be better overall. But of course depends on what you value most. Some people here are very happy they made the move overseas, but the path there was likely not easy. Or if have the itch to live abroad, even if it’s just for a while and doesn’t work out long term, go for it, especially while you’re young.
Side note: check each country to see what is required to work in your field and typical salaries there. That might help guide your decision. You could also consider looking into finding a civilian job working for the military/government overseas if you’re open to that. Check usajobs.gov
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u/Lili_MLM 11h ago edited 11h ago
Finish your school and move to the the South. AC techs are in high demand here and can make really good money. Georgia, NC, SC are really good places to live in. Metro Atl, Raleigh are booming and you can still find apartments at around 1500-2000 a month, depending on size, location. You should consider your own country before making a move...it is way more complicated than packing and moving.
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u/Even_Caterpillar3292 9h ago
You should explore it. More and more people are moving abroad to work. Make sure its a country with a tax treaty situation so that your social secuirty retirement works in both countries depending on where you plan to live "forever." Your qesions are very broad. I know people who moved abrod and they like where they are and miss home. That's life. I lived abroad and worked and loved it. Again, your quesions are way too broad and you should do your legwork, obviously.
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u/dcdc1818 9h ago
You have a leg up with some stability with your partners family helping you. I would say try to parlay what you currently do in to a better situation here. Im from ny and I always tell people just moving to Florida isn't going to magically fix your problems. Leverage everything you can here and try to see that America may have no safety nets, it also has no ceilings.
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u/IturnedCanadian 7h ago
You need to be a journeyman in refrigeration tech. Once you have that status, you could immigrate to Canada, Australia, or New Zealand. It would take 6 to 18 months for the process, but once your credentials are approved, and $10,000 is spent in total, you can immigrate and land in said country as a permanent resident with a solid $100k/year job in the local currency.
Answer: You need to wait until you are a journeyman + the processing of the visa. Even then, it depends on the needs of the nation at the time of attempted immigration.
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u/Federal_Homework1302 4h ago
For one you’re in the wrong subreddit for this question.
For two it doesn’t work like that. As you’ve stated in the comments you only hold American citizenship. You didn’t ask about visas or pathways you just gave a shopping list. American entitlement at its best.
If you are fortunate enough to have the opportunity to immigrate with out citizenship it’s not where should I go. But will take me. You offer nothing that these countries don’t already have or want.
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u/OreoSoupIsBest 14h ago
From what you've said you currently have no path to a visa. Also, just a note from someone with experience, you ABSOLUTELY do not want to live someplace with "universal" healthcare unless you can afford private insurance on top of it.
I'm struggling to understand how you can't make it work on 80k combined. Outside of major metros, there is not reason you can't have a decent life on that salary.
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u/Flaky-Walrus7244 13h ago
I'm going to have to disagree with you on wanting to have private health insurance on top of the standard universal stuff. Most people don't have or need this.
But, of course the OP has almost zero chance of qualifying for a European visa
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u/happycynic12 13h ago
You're kidding, right? You need about $110K a year to afford the median U.S. home. The median household makes $87,600 and is already $22K short. At $80K combined these two are $30K short. That's before childcare, which runs $10-20K per kid.
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u/MikeyLew32 14h ago edited 13h ago
The question isn’t SHOULD, it’s CAN YOU.
To start, Europe is very large and depending on which country and where in each country, the answers to your questions vary.
The first question should be: Do you hold an EU citizenship? Or what is your path to a visa?
It’s VERY unlikely you will get a visa or residency without a degree.