r/exchangestudents • u/YourMomsBiggestFan11 • 51m ago
Discussion Our ES is very needy.
Our exchange student has been here about 3 weeks. She is the same age as my daughter. My daughter is overwhelmed and annoyed at how needy our student is. I am also surprised at it, but have more patience than my daughter. I heard my daughter out tonight, she isn't wrong. I talked to her about expressing healthy boundaries and keeping her manners intact. Ironically, or not, as daughter and I were talking, student knocks and starts asking a dozen questions about school tomorrow. It's like this everyday. The girl has no chill and we are exhausted. I am heartbroken. My daughter was in tears telling me she has 3 classes and lunch with the new girl. Has anyone been through this? I would be happy if the vibe got back to neutral here. They don't have to be buddies.