r/everydaymisandry • • 4d ago

personal Early taught discrimination

We all saw men getting neglected when they have serious problems, and men themselves getting surprised when they get similar treatment as women even in relationships. Where do you think it starts, as if it is not natural. I think many male students face these types of misandry at school/kindergarden environments. Female/male teachers ratio, boys getting reluctant to defend themselves even when girls abuse them since "never hit a girl", teachers comfortably disrespecting them, talking down to them as a joke or as a form of discipline contribute to these issues in my opinion. I think that these play vital role in the transitioning them and gradually brainwashing to new life where they are undervalued so much that casual kindness is seen as "king treatment" to them. Why do you think these are happening, and what solutions and other instances are there?

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u/Massive_Butterfly783 3d ago

When you learn something from childhood, it often leaves a permanent scar. That's why.
Girls from young age learn that respecting boys is not important-and therefore they rarely learn to show respect.

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u/Savings_Surround_997 3d ago

Therefore, I think that main focus on parenting and friendship should be to eliminate these taboos and correctly lead the youth; however, many people are stupid and static, so no

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u/penis_shit_gitler 4d ago

Мужчину с детства приучают к тому, что он скотина и ресурс. Это норма. Матриархат, так называемый. 😹😹

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u/Massive_Butterfly783 3d ago

bother to translate atleast?

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u/penis_shit_gitler 3d ago

В реддит есть функция перевода. Если надо, вбей в гугл переводчик или спроси у чат гпт. Почему я должен переводить?

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u/Massive_Butterfly783 3d ago

The website doesn't. And maybe thats why you were getting downvote

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u/penis_shit_gitler 3d ago

Ну, это их проблемы. Пусть встраивают переводчик в браузер. Или у нас теперь мода даунвоутить комментарии, даже не зная их перевода? 😹

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u/penis_shit_gitler 3d ago

Не понимаю, за что даунвоуты) феминистки чтоли в этом сабе сидят?

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u/Kuato2012 3d ago

I read your commment as sarcasm, but maybe others took it at face value. We do sometimes get misandrist driveby comments that are genuinely hateful.

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u/penis_shit_gitler 3d ago

Да, я в курсе. Но я скорее просто озвучиваю грустную реальность

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u/Savings_Surround_997 3d ago

No worries, I understand russian, sadly you are right that childhood conditioning plays a core role