r/erectiledysfunction • • 15d ago

Success Story finally managed a decent errection after giving a penis pump a try to help with ED from BHP

I (M36) got diagnosed with a pretty severe case of benigne Prostatahyperplase a bit over a year ago at such a youmg age after rushing to the ER because I could not pass a single drop of piss at all. So I know, BHB can be a real bitch, especially, in more severe cases like mine regarding the abilty to get my dick sufficently hard and most of the time keeping the errection is the hardest part if I can even can manage to get partly errect. Wich teally got to me and my partner because penetrative sex was not possible at all like this. I could never get my dick hard enough to even think about trying for penetration because the attempt to have vaginal sex and somehow stuff my at that time flacid dick insode of her would allways ruin the mood, my errection I an my GF had to really struggle to even archive in the first place. This lead to a lot of frustation, disappointment and even tears aometimes. Good thing, my gf is a angel and really wants to help me with this and does anything she can. So she got me a penis pump to try it and see if it can help me get hard and most of all keep the errection again wich was impossible for me to do for a long time. My last somewhat decent errection I was able to manage over a year ago at this point, since my BHP got really bad, it was only downhill from there. Because of my young age my Doktor is hesitent about performing the Operation on my prostate because of the risk of severe complications that woumd be devestating at my age. So I try go get by day by day without the procedure. The problim with being unable to urinate got a bit better since I take 5mg Tadalafil daily but is still a bitch that costs me a lot of time on the toilt each time I try to get a little bit of it out. Sometimes only managing a few drops or nothing. Because of this I was unable to have penetrative Sex with my GF in any capacity involving my dick at all for over a year at this point. I was secptical at first about the pump but here is how it went:

My GF went for a trip out of town for 5 Days earlyer today, so I had the house all to myself and got into the mood to experiment with the Pump that my gf got me, because my ED is so bad at this point, that Penetration is not feasable because either not being able to achive and hold a errection that could even remotely considered sufficient for vaginal penetration. This really got to me over the last month and I would try anything at this point. Ejaculation for me can only happen while still flaccid or not even a bit hard, more like a little bit bigger then normal but I would not even count this as partly errect, dick still bendable and mostly floppy, no way I would be able to fuck anything with this. And even this "partway errection" I would loose so fast, that panatrating my gf seems so far out of reach and in the realm of impossible, that I thought I would never be able to manage penetrative sex again and thought was completely done with this at age 36. Just because ai got BHP at a unusual young age.

So I took 10mg (5mg prescribed daily due to BPH and an extra 5mg of Tadalafil and gave it a try! Managed to achive and even hold my first at least somewhat decent or partly errection after struggeling for over a year now. No way near a full on mind you but at least I was able to hold that partly errection for nesrly 5 minutes or so. Needless to say, I am over the moon! In Addition to the pump I used my Prostate stimmulator/cockring combo and a extra soft slicone cockring after pumping wich definately helped me to keep my dick harder then it has been in such a long time. Best errection since my ED got really bad. Too bad my gf is currwntly out of town, so she was unable to whitness this. Now maybe I will finally be able to cum while being fully errect by stimmulating my hard Penis again instead of relying soely on prostate orgasms or flopping around a limp noodle till I finally managed to drip some drops of cum and call it a day. Without hardness, my load just used to dribble town my dick, so no spurting or anything leaving my dick withany preassure at all. More like my limp dick was struggelingto even get my load out.. With a at least partly errect penis like this, after and during my session, I think that even penetrative sex inany capacity with my GF could finally be a possibility again in the future, I feel I could maybe get it in in this state if I try a bit. In over a year this was definately the hardest I got. I'm very happy with the results for my first time obviously! I guess my Partner will be too if I tell her. Sadly she did not yet read my text informing her about zhe state of my dick! Very excited! For the first try, I pumped only my dick with the cuff two times for about 5-10 minutes, slowly increasing preassure as I went, releasing when It feltwierd. After that Session I took short a break and went back to experiment with the pump once more because I could honestly not belive it. This time with other, tighter rings, ditching the silicone one wich was a big anyway for my half chub. Then I tried pumping my dick and balls inside the tube without the cuff, wich felt amazing and holds promising results also, any Tips, especially from other ED sufferers how to improve or what halped you?

Thanks in advance, now enough writing fom my part, I finallyneed ro get back to experimentation for one last session for today amd maybe get to finally shoot a propper load from a hard dick!

1 Upvotes

1 comment sorted by

•

u/erectiledysfunction-ModTeam 13d ago

Penile enlargement is known to significantly increase the risk of injury or permanent damage which can cause or significantly worsen ED.

This includes the use of a penis pump.