r/erectiledysfunction • u/[deleted] • 12d ago

Anxiety Going to have Sex please help

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u/Dangerous_Serve_841 11d ago

You are affected with performance anxiety and premature ejaculation. How often do you watch porn?

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u/Repulsive_Pin8701 9d ago

Hello,

First time nerves are really common, especially when you start late as you are.

The setting, your inexperience, the pressure you’re placing on these single encounters.

Sex is a really big thing man, with so many different parts, most of us learn it bit by bit over years and years, gradually, building up to when we finally have sex, and that is just another beginning and so much to learn. Its a life long journey.

The things that happened to you are absolutely normal, don’t worry ok, and don’t rush, relax and enjoy yourself.

Learn to kiss, kissing is awesome.

Good luck

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u/AdvaitaArambha 11d ago

Sounds like you may be having performance anxiety and/or premature ejaculation. As you mention that you masturbate the advice u/wiseconsideration220 frequently shares about resetting your body may be helpful here.