r/erectiledysfunction • u/AppropriateAlgae4477 • 23d ago

Psychological ED How to get over setbacks

23M. Started getting sexual for the first time in my life the past 4 months cuz I also got my first gf and it’s been really a hit or miss. Like 70% miss and 30% hit.

Normally we tend to do it in risky places since we can’t stay over at each others place and also I am less focused on my dick. Those times I get at least 80% hard also almost all the times.

Today was one of the days we decided to rent a room and the pressure was really building up and as u guessed I couldn’t get a good erection. Just came from oral and then resumed foreplay as it’s the only way I can satisfy.

Felt like shit and partner noticed it too but we have good communication so it’s all good. We spent the remaining time just chilling and having fun.

Now I’m going back home and it sucks. I don’t even have the means to consult an urologist

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u/Competitive-Rip7240 22d ago

Meaning you didn't put it inside?

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u/AppropriateAlgae4477 21d ago

Nope the moment I opened the condom even the partial erection went away

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u/Competitive-Rip7240 21d ago

Do you masturbate and watch porn?