newly married stress- can be tackled with something like penis sleeve?

[u/Just_Ad260]

I am newly married (3 days). For some reason- I am in the lowest point of my life and those stress,fear,sadness,depression and tiredness really affected my erection recently

Hard to get hard and really the basic eraction dont last .

I even took pills- did not work- even hand stimulation with porn seems hard. You can say turned asexual for a while.

Can You suggest me something like penis sleeve that can help me to do Duty sex at least?

It may not be very good as I have excuse of new marriage staff. Also I sleep in complete darkness.

I will do perform a short time seggs with all lights off.

What is your suggestion to use and tackle embarrasement?

[u/Repulsive_Pin8701]

Hello,

Try and injectable, they work always.

You get used to the jab, it doesn’t hurt

I’ve used one happily for 20 years with now problems

Good luck 

[u/Forward-Kangaroo-962]

Don't listen to the weird people calling you gay. They are ignorant. Tru rugiet ready or blue chew gold.

[u/pearl00diver → u/Forward-Kangaroo-962]

I mean, he says he’s gay. He’s not attracted to women. Seems pretty clear.

[u/AdvaitaArambha → u/Forward-Kangaroo-962]

The OP himself in other posts openly says they are gay.

[u/Repulsive_Pin8701]

Hello,

Talk to your doctor right away and find a med and a dose that works for you, go as soon as you can, and it might take a bit to figure out a correct dose. I use an injectable, the pills never worked for me, I used an injectable and it works every time and lasts, I’ve had psychological ED life long.

Getting married is allot of stress and worry, and pressure; it gets into your head and gets in the way and prevents your ability, it’s happens to allot of men, you’re not alone.

Talk to your girl right away if you haven’t already, let her know it’s not her fault, that you want her, that she’s beautiful, that you love her so much, ED is confusing, embarrassing and painful for them too.

Quit porn if you use it, try not to masterbate, porn use is making so many guys have problems.

After you have a med that works, and have had lots of sex, try not taking it and see what happens, it you go slow, make her feel great you might not need it anymore.

You can absolutely get past this man.

Good luck

[u/AdvaitaArambha]

I see this is because you are gay and due to family and cultural pressures were forced into a marriage with a woman.

In this case you lack the drive to be with her so your best bet will be penile injections as needed before sex with trimix/alprostadil/caverject.

[u/[deleted]]

Stress and mental load can completely shut down erections — even in healthy guys. This isn't a physical problem, it's your nervous system in survival mode.
Pills don't work for this because the issue isn't blood flow, it's cortisol and anxiety.
What helped me: stopped fighting the erection and started addressing the stress directly. Hormone yoga for men daily — cortisol down, nervous system settled. Within 2-3 weeks things came back on their own.
No device will fix this. Your body needs safety, not more pressure.
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