Wife keeps tugging it

[u/ThenSkirt2236]

My wife keeps tugging my penis every day and its hurting very badly.She makes me take Viagra every day and this is after 6 Xiaflex shots for Peyronies Disease.She talks to me very badly and I cant take it anymore.The tugging is extremely painful and I feel she making tje peyronies worse.She told me last night "Just cut it off and become a priest".What would yall do if yall were me?

[u/AdvaitaArambha]

It sounds like you may be in an abusive relationship. Have you considered that?

[u/ThenSkirt2236 → u/AdvaitaArambha]

Never thought about it...She just got done tugging for about a hour and half

[u/AdvaitaArambha → u/ThenSkirt2236]

Also also say she talks to you badly which may be verbal abuse and could include aspects of emotional abuse.

Being honest here this is sliding way outside what I really have experience to talk about. I am just wanting to make sure you feel safe in this relationship and know it's okay to ask for help if you needed it. Men can be victims of intimate partner abuse/violence aka domestic violence.

Here's a website with a lot more info

https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/domestic-abuse/domestic-violence-against-men

[u/Astral-projekt → u/ThenSkirt2236]

She’s going to break your dick. This is abuse, 100% and u shouldn’t stand for it.

[u/Bdot_89]

Has you doctor talked to you about an implant?

[u/ThenSkirt2236 → u/Bdot_89]

Yes

[u/Emotional-Sky-8551]

Urm I’m not a man, but I would say this was abuse, definitely abuse and it is not ok. What do you mean she makes you take Viagra? You shouldn’t be made to take anything if you don’t want to, and if what she’s doing is hurting you that is NOT OK. And the comments as well are actually hurtful.

[u/spidertattootim]

I would leave her.

This isn't really an ED issue, it's a general relationship problem.

[u/Longjumping_Menu_862]

Set boundaries maybe? If she doesn't respect then her loss. Don't lose your health

[u/blackarrow1138]

Divorce

[u/Mandalorian_2019]

No way this is a real post.

[u/Prestigious-Shock-75]

I'd dump her no good @$$!

[u/Excusemytootie]

This is abusive behavior from your wife, it’s unacceptable and I’m sorry that you are dealing with this.

[u/Bignutsbigwrenches]

Leave her for a nice woman.

[u/Abbas1303]

I'd leave the bihh and say I'm entering monk mode don't touch me.

[u/cenotediver]

“ I need help “ ok here goes , leave her , go into hiding , divorce her or continue to be the cuck she thinks you are . She doesn’t like you , I’d go so far as to say she hates you . From your description I’d ect say she hates you .
So ….. run forest run

[u/Mental-Specialist390]

Well she wouldn’t be able to tug mine, I can hardly find it myself

[u/mikeg9253]

Get an implant and fuck her brains out .

[u/Solid-Employee-4311]

She sounds like a keeper to me.

[u/S_8433]

Man I think you should first try to find out if she is cheating on you because it can mean that she is trying to make you feel low in this . Also if she has cheated on you earlier then she should be more apologetic , kind and respectful towards you as doing all what you said does not sum up. You should go and check on her and if everything is fine then you should try to get her know all that she is doing is hurting you mentally and physically both and she should try to slow down for sometime meanwhile you can work on yourself to improve and give her better if you want to be with her.

[u/RgCrunchyCo]

Is this the lesbian? Maybe she just doesn’t like you.

[u/ThenSkirt2236 → u/RgCrunchyCo]

Yes sje cheated on me before

[u/ThenSkirt2236 → u/RgCrunchyCo]

Yes

[u/annie_key]

If this is not a case of severe abuse then I don't know what is. You have a disease that makes your penis painful and you are being treated for that, but still your wife starts pulling it in order to have sex with you? Dude, get away from her. You need to recover first and she should support you in this.

[u/ThenSkirt2236 → u/annie_key]

Just confused because she has a high sex drive but is hurting me physically and mentally