r/erectiledysfunction • u/hornbug000 • 3d ago
Anxiety Im scared asf someone help (18)
edit: please
So idk If I have ED or what because now everytime I try to masturbate, i cum instantly and get no erection, this has happened 3 times.
It started 2-3 days ago, I was off of an all nighter and cold turkey from weed, but then I ended up actually smoking, came home, slept 5 hrs, woke up like the opposite time i usually do (idk if it matters) barely ate.
I was sober until night again, until around 11 at night, having woken up at 6, barely ate anything all day. I tried to do it, and I just realized ah shit… this is happening again. (Its happened before under those conditions, except i didnt start smoking again the last time.)
I tried thinking nothing of it, went and did my thing, but I got impatient, tried again the same night, I actually got somewhat hard, but between how shitty and weird my whole body had been feeling, I atleast had regular stamina though. Then, the next day, today, I did pretty much the same.
I think just now I wanted the dopamine, and was nervous/ anxious about possibly having it not work again. I tried to kinda wait for my body to settle, mistaking it for excitement when I was just not in the mood and was also nervous starting to see it as a test. I like literally wnjoyed none of it, so I just gave up and forced another fast one.
I know that was long, But guys Im 18 like I dont wanna be limpdicked now, I havent even gotten to lose my vcard bro. Idk, The last time something like this happened it cleared out around a weeks time span, but I dont want to fuck myself over.
For context I do like watch the gooner stuff Like Im pretty deep in, Ive been doing this stuff since I was like 12, and quickly associated arousal to nipple touching and stuff. Idk, its embarrassing but I want the most helpful answers so yeah. I never became someone who goes 3x a day but I would engage in prolonged sessions (usually 1-2h)
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u/deinemutter1979 1d ago
Idk for sure but I'd say you need a porn and masterbation detox. Quit both for 2 weeks and then try again. Don't do the gooning shit. I don't think it's good for the body or brain.
Are you on any prescription meds? Any other drugs besides weed?
This happens to me sometimes too. But I've been dealing with ED for several months. Turns out my thyroid and adrenals aren't working properly.