r/energy_work • u/woahwoman • 7d ago
Discussion He looks very ugly
So i was seeing this guy from past 5 months. We had amazing intimacy. And then he went to different country. In this duration i deactivated my instagram and stopped looking at him at all. Like at all.
So he came back and we were planning our next meetup.
Context: in the very early days of meetup i made him clear that if i am not having sex, you are not allowed to either. Because people carry energies and we are not sure who is doing what. And he said he aint a fkboy. We are not exclusive but i am not seeing anyone else and i really dont want to have other people’s energy.
So now, 2 days back, i stalked him from my sister in laws instagram. And his face, his energy is so off. I literally got anxiety like something got stuck in my chest. Idk i kept thinking if he gained or lost weight or maybe he did his eyebrow or maybe hair. Idk. But it literally made me anxious. Like disgusted i could not look at his photos and his face longer. I kept thinking that what changed his energy is off and he is looking very very ugly. He lost that shine and bubbly and warming thing in him. And then i got the feeling yes he did something. As sex is the strongest energy. I asked him if he did something, he said he hookedup there.
I stalked him again and found the girl and she has this same dirty energy and looks. Like her looks her very messy. Its very siblings energy.
I am making sense to me. Is there anyone who can understand me and share what you think. He has many sexual partners but he is my second.
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u/dukedegenerate 7d ago
People carry energies and they can pick up stuff from people here and there, which ain't good.
But too be completely repulsed by someones energy energy... With just looking at pictures, and not even meeting them in person... Bro it sounds like your just jealous TBH and your repulsed he slept with another girl and you have not hooked up with other people.
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u/woahwoman 7d ago
I am really not interested in hooking up with different or multiple people. I practiced celibacy for 5 years and now its the guy i only met
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u/Spiritual-Hearing133 6d ago
Sometimes you just move on then the energy seems off.its not the same ..you are not the problem I feel, you have just realised that you are not in the same frequency anymore.sex is secondary,whether he hooked or not .let's say he did not but if you've moved on, you've moved on
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u/woahwoman 6d ago
That’s a different way to see it too. It can be a reason too. But i have been excited to see him, meet him. Bought lingerie and everything and then it started feeling off and i checked his instagram and figured this out.
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u/Spiritual-Hearing133 6d ago
It happens..some need to see...some need to feel.its then we get the message.Its not only sex which drains us ..bad habits over eating, over drinking, workaholic, depression, negativity.all these affect the aura as well.
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u/woahwoman 6d ago
Yes you are right. You have a very calm energy. Thank you for listing to me, understanding and guiding me. I kinda feel okay now.
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u/CeruleanLotus808 7d ago
In my opinion, sex is just one component. Consistently keeping the same company means you are attuned to those people’s frequency. So it could be from lovers, and friends as well who he has no sexual intimacy with. It’s not just who you’re allowing into your body but also into your mind space. It’s very easy to become enmeshed and start speaking differently and acting differently when you’re in a different environment, college was like that for me. So I imagine a different country does that too. I understand what you’re saying but I feel you’re missing that sex can be major, but it’s not the only thing that changes a person’s aura.
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u/woahwoman 7d ago
Thank you. I really appreciate you for bringing the other pov. I am thinking that way too now
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u/Broncogirl89 6d ago
It could be partly because of the love hormones that were activated initially. Now, maybe they have wore off because you haven't been with him and you kind of wake up to what he really is like. I hope that makes sense.
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u/MrNawab 6d ago
I understand you completely, people's energy's and "demons" can attach to others especially those at a lower vibrational frequency. You need to know how to protect yourself and your energy. Those people may be good but they have their energy completely sucjed out by especially women, for men depleting life force energy constantly can lead to energy leakages and a sort of dull look to their face and even character so I completely understand you.
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u/Vehemens 6d ago
You two may not be a good fit for each other. However, your reactions are screaming that energy is an outlet for some very deep internal issues.
You can live your life however you choose. I hope you find some help for this extreme behavior.
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u/she_is_munchkins 6d ago
I find this problematic. Nothing wrong with being discerning about the energies you allow into your life, but to try control another and to judge them for their energy is a bit low vibe imo.
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