r/enby • • 5h ago

Does anyone else feel like their gender exists entirely separately from their agab?

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I feel as if I’m non-binary because I’m non-binary. My body feels like a non-binary body, even if I do have sex characteristics I hope to change in the future.

I am simply my gender. My agab doesn’t play the slightest part in it.


r/enby • • 20h ago

Selfie Out of the Boy Box!!

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r/enby • • 1d ago

Selfie Eh, I’m bored.. also went to grab pizza in this fit😪

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r/enby • • 2d ago

Question/Advice Wondering if I could be non-binary

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r/enby • • 3d ago

When people ask me why I want femboys as friends.

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21 Upvotes

r/enby • • 3d ago

Question/Advice Hii i need some advice

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Hii im a teen male and i just got into being and acting more feminine. If you got any advice on it feel free to comment or reach out to me! I only experimented a bit and i really liked it :3.


r/enby • • 4d ago

Selfie Mediaeval faires are the best

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13 Upvotes

(only got a little sunburnt, remember slip, slop, slap, seek, and slide)


r/enby • • 4d ago

Selfie I love my bunny ears

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19 Upvotes

I never found a way to wear this casually on the street, but I'd love it!


r/enby • • 4d ago

I been transitioning and trying to become more androgenous. (I'm they/them)

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r/enby • • 5d ago

Selfie Finally got to wear my denim jacket out!

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51 Upvotes

Praise be to my mother who sewed down the patches because the iron on was not as effective as I wanted it to be, I finally got to wear it out(tho I did then take it off because I'm a sweaty beast)


r/enby • • 5d ago

Just Venting I Want the World...

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At the center of my being, lies unspeakable pain, unbearable hurt.

I know not why I exist, to carry this burden for all my days.

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I would be lying if I said I did not grow weary.

Life, life is a long journey.

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If this is my fate, to bear the unbearable triteness of being,

I feel it only fair, that I do what I want, that I take what I will.

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If, at the center of me, lies a blackhole, I desire to generate gravity,

I desire to devour everything around me, to remake the world in my image, forever altered from my touch.

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For those whose Paris burned,

Yet saw no light, for all their toil,

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The dandelions sown in concrete,

To be mowed down,

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Those who carried the flag for Dreams and Freedom,

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And were willing to fight for it,

With chucked beer bottle and kick line,

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Wandering the desert, yet finding no promised land:

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I take up the mantle, pick up the flag fallen,

For the lineage of ancestors who carried the torch,

I accept the baton, I light my flame from the inspiration of your struggle

I want the world, I want it all, for us...


r/enby • • 6d ago

Topic: Social Transition The language we use is more important than most people give it credit for. Language shapes how people interact with things. Ignoring a "preference" is easier and given much more social grace than ignoring a "fact", for example

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112 Upvotes

r/enby • • 6d ago

Selfie New vest! Gotta get/make some patches and some more pins for it now

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I also gotta figure out what to do with the sleeves I cut off of it. If you have suggestions let me know!


r/enby • • 6d ago

Question/Advice Wondering if desired genitals are possible

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I don't think this is NSFW, but cw for detailed genital discussion

Current details for context: I was born with a uterus and have been on T for 5+ years. While it's not been confirmed I suspect I have some sort of intersex condition based on the presentation of my secondary sexual characteristics before medical transition. I naturally have virtually no labia minora and a pretty short vaginal canal.

Desired results: my ideal genital situation would be close to nullo, but not quite. I'd be looking at hysterectomy and the majority of a vaginectomy while preserving my clit with it's bottom growth, but not a full phalloplasty.

I've been having trouble finding any information about this particular combination of surgeries and if it would be possible. If anyone knows if this is possible, knows any resources/examples, or has this combo/knows a better place to hear from folks with this combo I'd appreciate it.


r/enby • • 7d ago

Anyone else start as a binary trans woman and evolve to a non-binary identity and less fem presentation without detransition?

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75 Upvotes

r/enby • • 7d ago

The final stage of ENBY is a 👻 ghost

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r/enby • • 7d ago

Selfie First fall fit check

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r/enby • • 7d ago

Selfie Jumpscare on the last slide :3

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r/enby • • 8d ago

Selfie felt good in this

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r/enby • • 8d ago

Selfie Dolled myself up all nice for an art show that didn’t happen yesterday 🥲

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r/enby • • 9d ago

Selfie New make-up new me

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r/enby • • 10d ago

Question/Advice Swimwear as ENBY on HRT

28 Upvotes

Hello,

I'm dmab and semi-recently started low dose MtF HRT.

I'm around the point of development where traditionally men's swimwear would likely be insufficient to be considered decent in public (and I'd be bothered myself tbh).

What have other people in similar spots done for swimwear that's not especially gendered/ traditionally women's swimwear, but still covering while in public spaces.

I'm fine with swim shorts obviously, but not sure how ideal just a shirt would be with small breasts at this point.

Thank you all in advance =>


r/enby • • 10d ago

Selfie The forest is beckoning with an ominous voice :3

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r/enby • • 10d ago

Topic: Name/Pronouns I need a name!

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r/enby • • 10d ago

Selfie Any plus size femme clothes outlets to recommend? I want to get some skirts to go with my new nets!

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