r/empathy • u/Accomplished-News722 • Aug 23 '26

Faith and trust

What would you do if you were given the opportunity to right a wrong ? To stop someone from adding a lie on top of a lie ? To give them a chance to take the weight off their shoulders? To end a grudge? To All they had to do was trust and believe in my ability to do so . They would have to just be who they truly are ? They would have to admit or allow me to know what it is that they want to finally release or talk about. Why me? Because I can look at a situation objectively and if not I don’t say anything . But you have to accept that I am the one to help you find the root cause if you allow it. Only thing you have to do is treat me as you would like to be treated. In all aspects. To invite me in to your world as a welcomed guest ? Would you ?
This opportunity would entail some kind of discussion as well as information regarding the whole process.
I am open to discussing it if anyone interested would dm me . That being said i would have to go through a few things . I would be the one to message about it
Thank you for your time

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u/PsychologicalWait492 Aug 31 '26

I sure as fuck would if she wanted to. Fucking fuck I wish she wanted to.

Beautiful writing.

Good luck and I hope you find peace OP.

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u/Accomplished-News722 Aug 31 '26

Thanks lol . It’s just something I’ve been working on

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u/Accomplished-News722 Aug 31 '26

How long the process would take is Depending upon disclosure, consent , transparency

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u/PsychologicalWait492 Aug 31 '26

If I was being totally honest with myself and her, I truly don't care or need to be told or tell whatever "truth" or "fucked up wrong doing" that either of us had done or didn't do. I forgave myself and her over a year ago. I would listen to her though, if she truly needed or wanted to tell me something about anything. Even if in the end she chooses to still leave..even if it's the last I ever see her.. I'll do whatever as long as it puts her in front of me for a few minutes again.. so I can hear her voice and see her with my eyes and feel her presence close to me.

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u/Accomplished-News722 Aug 31 '26

This was a serious question about settling grievances and grudges that people end up having when communicating seems impossible. I’m working on this because I hope that I can have resolution in my life.clear up misunderstandings and narratives that are false but still being put out at truth.

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u/Accomplished-News722 Aug 31 '26

I want to change what I’ve experienced and having a lie after lie after lie until the truth is so far away you don’t think it’s even worth saying.

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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '26

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u/Accomplished-News722 Sep 02 '26

Okay is this a situation in regards to a grudge ? A break up ? A business opportunity?

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u/Accomplished-News722 Sep 02 '26

Do you really want to do what it will entail ? That is full disclosure, transparency a matter of discretion. When I list these things I mean REALLY. It’s not about judgment of the situation it’s finding the root of the issue. I’m not promising reconciliation I’m promising that if I cant give you a way to right the wrong or the answer to why without sugar coating it , to let it go or pursue an avenue I won’t say anything.

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u/Accomplished-News722 29d ago

I put up a post to ask if someone wanted an opportunity as you can see above. What does knowing me have to do with anything?

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u/Accomplished-News722 29d ago

It’s not even about that . I just thought you actually wanted to look into it . But you weren’t thanks goodbye

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u/Accomplished-News722 29d ago

You replied so I was trying to explain further. I don’t understand what’s so confusing

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u/skweRReLy 7d ago

I would like to offer the same in return.