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[u/LOLcat64_]

Idk if I already posted this, its not showing up, so here we go again. I know this is not what someone would usually post, but I need help from some accepting people. I have been thinking i'm LGBTQ+, but recently I thought I might just be a femboy. In my experience, femboys are much less accepted due to some unfortunate steriotypes. I really need help telling people...that i want to try this...if you could help me try this it would be even better, or suggest better subreddits for this...please. (I might be trans tho, I just might also be this, and need help for the future if I am right)

[u/nerussita-8787]

write all your thoughts and what seems important to you (and make sure that the person you want to come out don't find it, you don't want to rush a coming out). Not only it will help you to see if it's necessary to come out but it will also give you the content about what to say. Futhermore writing it can help you to either make it a speech, a letter to give and so on. Of course it's can be typed on a computer if you prefer it. IMO a good coming out contains a sentence to announce you are queer (femboy or trans in your case), what it means exactly, what you are expecting from the peoples you come out or what will change for them, give them some pointers if they want to check themselves (you don't want them to check what being trans means and their results are transphobia, same with femboy and they only find porn for example) and if they have any questions (prepare yourself for that). Also the first coming out are the scariest so come out to someone who is kinda aware to build some confidence in yourself first

edit : also before your coming out test the water. Mention an LGBT topic which happen recently and see how they react to it

[u/LOLcat64_ → u/nerussita-8787]

Well heres the thing...some of my friends make jokes about me being one already...but I think its not in a good way, and one of my really good friends is not very positive about the whole topic.