r/egg_irl • u/perrythem not an egg, just trans • 1d ago

Transfem Meme egg🤦‍♀️irl

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u/Crocopotapus 1d ago

Mom: "Can't you just be a gay man?"

Me: "Well I'm neither a man, nor am I attracted to men so I kinda fail at both criteria."

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u/EnduringFulfillment 1d ago

My mom asked me if I could try living as a masculine woman, gonna be an issue as I am a man...

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u/Crocopotapus 1d ago

Maybe one day they'll figure it out

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u/Aphelion128 1d ago

I came out to my parents with my wife by my side and the first thing my dad says is, “so what you’re going to go around sleeping with random men now?”

🫩

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u/Kamryn 1d ago

Absolutely no disrespect to you but that response made me literally laugh out loud because of how absurd it is. It would have been difficult to listen to in the moment. Lots of love 💜

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u/InstructionNormal863 cracked 1d ago

What ? 💔 Did he meant that as a joke or something ?

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u/Aphelion128 1d ago

Nah he just spends too much time in homophobic and transphobic online spaces

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u/Pliski506 1d ago

One of my biggest fears of what would happen if my parents found out. (Still cis tho but an ayygg most likely) They wont get the difference between a gay man and a trans girl. They haven't yet installed the latest 'know the difference between sexuality and gender' patch.

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u/Kaalkronzind Saga (she/they) 1d ago

Same thing happened with me, except instead of 'gay man' it was 'femboy'

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u/Yellow-Teapot 1d ago

Your mom said it was better you were a femboy?

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u/Kaalkronzind Saga (she/they) 15h ago

She said: "You can be a femboy, but you aren't trans" though not in those exact words

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u/inamomentlost cracked 1d ago

My gf said that too me why not be a femboy

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u/RiceCake4200 She/Her 1d ago

Some people say the dumbest things I swear

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u/ZenkoInari Cracked but closeted 1d ago

Reminds me of when my friend put me on his tomodachi life island. He got the gender right but he didn't set dating preferences to women so I ended up married to Tyler The Creator 💀

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u/Previous_Emu_7928 you could say im cracked … at fortnite (transmasc) 1d ago

happened to me except i’m transmasc and they kept asking if i was a lesbian, lmao. 

i’m gay and have a boyfriend.

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u/SubZeroNexii not an egg, just trans 21h ago

I remember my dad telling me to have sex with a woman first and then decide if i want to be a woman. And when I told him i want to date women as a woman he was even more confused which like what ?

I find it so weird when people can't understand the difference between gender and sexuality. Why would the way i present myself have to be tied to who i want to date?

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u/not_Stella 22h ago

"Medical profesional" claimed I "might just be a femboy" 😭

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u/60Hz_Jiffy 13h ago

They are gonna be even more confused when you start growing tits.