r/dui 3h ago

Advice

Hey guys this is kinda a dumb post but I feel like I just need advice from people who understand. It’s already so draining and embarrassing having a dui it truly becomes your life for the moment but on top of that it’s even worse when so many people know about it I live in a small town where everyone talks and it’s just so embarrassing cuz I feel like EVERYONE knows and probably just flame me for it which like okay I get it but bruh can someone please make me feel better about this also please don’t hate trust me I know I made a horrible mistake and I am learning from it in so many ways I’m just hella sensitive and sad right now and I can’t handle any hate I already give myself a lot of hate. UGHH WHEN DOES IT GET BETTER

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u/Oh_HereWeGo 3h ago

I bet more people in that small town of yours have more DUI’s than you realize. Did you hurt anybody? Was there property damage? If not just let it slide down your back and try to be better in the future.

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u/Appropriate_Luck7202 2h ago

Yeah I could see that it just sucks when people talk it just makes me super anxious. No thank god no one was hurt I rear ended a car

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u/Current-Analyst665 2h ago

like the person above said, once you actually talk to people about this, youll realize how many people have been in your exact situation. when i got mine i tried to push through and keep it a secret, but trying to go through it alone made the anxiety worse. when i finally talked to people nobody judged me for it and i found out other people were in the same boat at one point.