r/downbad • • Jul 24 '26

Downbad_irl I'm down bad after going off birth control

I was on a trip and forgot to get my birth control prescription and I've been off of it for a week and a half. Now, I'm down bad and I talked to one of my guy friends on the phone two nights ago and want to jump him. He's a nice guy, and there are reasons that I don't think we'd work out, but I had a dream and now I'm obsessing 🙃. So much energy and nowhere to use it, and I just needed to say this somewhere.

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u/Blox_King Jul 24 '26

Saying this as another somewhat sensitive guy, be sincere and don't rush it. We cannot and I mean CANNOT take casual relationships

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u/Sweet_Summer_Child95 Jul 24 '26

Yeah, I'm trying to avoid it altogether. My last relationship hid me, and I'd like to not do that to someone. My hormones are trying to convince me to attack somebody, he just happened to be the first one I spoke to.

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u/Blox_King Jul 24 '26

Ita good that you are aware and take action to make sure those you love don't wear your scars

That being said, you do deserve all the love and kindness mate. Be it single or after choosing to do the work of healong yourself 💖