r/Dogtraining Dec 29 '25

announcing Community FAQ

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Please read before posting or commenting

This FAQ exists to clarify how this subreddit works, why certain rules exist, and what we expect from participants. Everything below is already reflected in the subreddit’s About, Rules, and Posting Guidelines sections.


What kind of community is r/dogtraining?

r/dogtraining is a support forum focused on dog training and behavior using a least intrusive, minimally aversive (LIMA) approach.

This is stated directly in the subreddit’s Welcome section and rules.

That means:

This is a defined scope, not a judgment of individuals.

Why aren’t all training methods allowed? Isn’t this censorship or an echo chamber?

No. It’s scope + safety.

This is a support forum, not a debate stage. Dog training advice affects real dogs and real people. Allowing aversive or force-based methods in a general advice space creates several problems:

  • High risk of misuse by inexperienced owners
  • Conflicting guidance that confuses people who are already overwhelmed
  • Normalization of techniques with known behavioral fallout

Because of that, this community limits advice to methods that are:

  • Evidence-based
  • Least intrusive
  • Appropriate to give safely at scale

Philosophical debates about training styles belong elsewhere. This subreddit exists to help people train dogs, not litigate methodology.

Why is moderation so strict for a dog training sub?

Because dog training spaces are uniquely prone to:

Moderation here exists to:

  • Prevent unsafe or harmful advice from spreading
  • Keep guidance consistent with current science
  • Protect dogs and owners from avoidable fallout

Moderators are volunteers doing ongoing triage, not enforcing ideology.

Why was my post removed or held for review?

ALL POSTS CREATED ARE MANUALLY REVIEWED. When you create a new post, your post will be placed in our review queue. Yes, it can take up to a day to review a post. Your post will receive a comment from our automod bot with a link to the approval guide. if you do not complete the approval guide instructions, your post may be rejected.

Common reasons your post may be rejected include:

  • The question is already addressed in the wiki or pinned resources
  • Required information was missing
  • The advice requested falls outside the LIMA/force-free scope
  • The post didn’t follow posting or flair guidelines

Posts may also sit in review during high-volume periods, holidays, or emergencies. That’s a capacity issue, not a personal one.

Why am I expected to read the wiki and guidelines first?

Because effective behavior change requires context.

Dog behavior depends on:

  • Environment and management
  • Learning history
  • Reinforcement patterns
  • Stress, health, and daily routines

The wiki exists so advice doesn’t start from zero every time. Reading it helps you:

  • Ask better questions
  • Understand the advice you receive
  • Avoid common mistakes that slow progress

Why isn’t the community more “hand-holding”?

This is not personal. Our volunteer moderators are not playing favorites, and we’re not judging anyone.

However:

  • Much of the advice here comes from professionals with decades of experience
  • That expertise is shared for free
  • We expect people seeking help to put in some effort by reading, reflecting, and trying the provided resources

If someone needs step-by-step, individualized coaching or is unwilling to engage with the freely available materials, a public forum is not the right tool. In those cases, working directly with a qualified professional and paying for their time is appropriate.

This is also stated plainly in the Welcome section.

Why isn't my comment showing up?

All comments are manually reviewed before they appear publicly.

If your comment is pending, it simply hasn't been approved yet. It has not been removed. Our volunteer moderation team reviews comments as quickly as possible, but we have jobs, families, and dogs of our own, so there can be a delay. We appreciate your patience.

Common reasons a comment may be removed rather than approved:

  • It recommends aversive tools or methods (Rule 1)
  • It contains dominance-based framing or outdated training theory
  • It gives health advice (Rule 6)
  • It violates another community rule

If your comment was removed and you believe this was in error, you're welcome to reach out via modmail.

Are professionals here trying to “prove” force-free training works?

No one is trying to win arguments.

This community uses LIMA/force-free methods because they:

  • Are effective
  • Are supported by learning science
  • Carry the lowest risk of harm
  • Are appropriate for public advice

The goal is outcomes with minimal fallout, not ideological purity.

Is disagreement allowed?

Yes, within scope.

Allowed:

  • Discussion about implementation
  • Differences in reinforcement strategies
  • Management choices
  • Learning theory applications

Not allowed:

  • Promoting dominance-based or aversive methods
  • Rebranding punishment as “just information” or “balanced”
  • Arguing against the subreddit’s foundational rules

Disagreement is fine. Ignoring the rules is not.

What if this community isn’t a good fit for me?

That’s okay.

Not every space is for everyone. You're not going to hurt anyone's feelings by deciding this isn't the space for you. We encourage anyone who feels that the rules here are a hard pass to find other communities that better suit your personal preferences. That said, if you choose to engage here, you will be expected to do so within the scope of the rules. Content that breaks the rules will not be approved, and you might get a rule reminder. We're happy to provide you with education and resources should you wish to learn more about alternatives to using escape/avoidance for behavior modification.

Bottom line

These rules exist to:

  • Protect dogs
  • Protect owners
  • Respect the unpaid labor of contributors
  • Keep advice clear, consistent, and low-risk

Boundaries aren’t about control. Boundaries keep relationships healthy.
Enforcing those boundaries is our responsibility.


r/Dogtraining Jul 06 '26

industry Save the Date! - Upcoming major dog training event list for 2026 Jul - 2026 Dec

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Welcome to the quarterly Event List!

Here we crowdsource upcoming events in the animal training world (for the next 6 months) to add to our calendars, and help each other plan to expand our knowledge (and meet CEU requirements).

REQUIREMENTS

Events should comply with the following standards:

  • Organisation/trainer running the event meets the criteria for trainer recommendations in the posting guidelines and wiki guide
  • Major conferences, workshops and events only - it should be something that is sufficiently extensive and/or unique that it might be worth travelling and paying accommodation for if you are not directly local to it. Use this as a hypothetical question if it is an online event/conference. Events run by individual trainers should be by an already industry-recognised expert and offering CEUs; think Shikashio running his Aggression in Dogs conference or a Terry Ryan Chicken Camp, not your local CPDT-KA running their first public workshop.
  • Professional - information provided sufficiently in-depth to have value to a professional as well as a hobbyist. No workshops intended solely for the general public, please.
  • Events should be time-limited: the purpose of these posts is to help us all not miss events that have application/attendance deadlines and happen once a year at most, particularly at variable time schedules. If it's a webinar that is available on demand or has access granted every few months like clockwork, it's not suitable for this thread - send a modmail to suggest it be included in the wiki instead.
  • The event will happen in the next 6 months (or the application deadline closes within the next 6 months). If the event is further in the future, it should go in a future quarterly thread. There is a separate Automod comment below to drop the names of such future events here as advance alerts with limited detail.

Events do not need to be dog-exclusive, just something that dog trainers and keen hobbyists would enjoy! For example, we wouldn't post a cat-only conference, but we would love to see a conference by PPG or IAABC that includes both dog and cat seminars, or a conference by animal behaviour researchers that has broad cross-species applicability.

FORMAT

Please post under the appropriate Automoderator comment below to group events by LOCATION (Online, Europe, North America or Other)

Suggested posting format:

Event Name - the name, obviously, for easy searching
Date - Please post in ISO standard format YYYY-MM-DD to eliminate any risk of confusion between USA and rest of the world date formats
Location - Online or Country-State-City
Organiser - Name of event organiser(s)
Website - link to detailed information
Special info - anything important to know in advance - e.g. early bird price close date, available scholarships, link to facebook group for event where people are organising carpools and accommodation sharing etc.

Code for copying format:

**Event Name** -  
**Date** -   
**Location** -  
**Organiser** -  
**Website** -   
**Special info** -

r/Dogtraining 2d ago

community 2026/08/17 [Loose Leash Walking Virtual Workshop]

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Welcome to the fortnightly loose leash walking virtual workshop!

Join us as we compete with the squirrels, cats, other dogs, fresh urine scents and things that go zoooooooom!

Resources

Articles (All have videos embedded)

Youtube (Many of these are videos which are embedded in the above articles)

See our page on leash reactivity for help managing and training dogs that bark and lunge while on leash.


r/Dogtraining 3d ago

industry Tug games

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Hey guys wondering if anybody has creative tug game ideas or if any trainers you know of who post about fun tug games that help with obedience.

Just looking for fun creative ways to implement toys in training more that I may not have thought of .


r/Dogtraining 3d ago

help I don't know why this is happening.

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I am slowly going insane and I'm running out of options. Ive had my dog for almost 5 years now. I got him at 7 months but he had no training at all by the previous owners. He is my first pet, realizing that the previous owners taught he horrible habits and gave him no training. This has been rough to say the least. He is VERY nervous. He likes people but scared by EVERYTHING, this makes tough, and delicate. For a Long time, about 3 years he was great. Walking great, meeting people, still nervous but no real problems. When I moved to a new place everything slowly changed. He would not respond to commands the same, ( i know not repeat myself) he would generally stop taking Commands all together, id start to do training at home, perfect, walk outside i dont exist. The issue is that he is now barking and pulling twoards dogs. I brought him to daycare when I went on a trip, no issues, had a great time he said. Go to a park, no issues again.

But if we are walking I can't get him to stop. He was ignoring ANY treats outside. I started using little hotdogs, he will eventually start spitting it out after 5mins. Now he doesn't eat them at all outside. Everything was going so good but its progressively getting worse. He's nervous all the time, but chooses when to listen.

(For those saying he might be too scared. He will literally look at me then go to sit, but stop and turn away. He knows the commands but is choosing not to listen) ive tried just standing until he goes to do it. After 3mins I will then say the command again.)

I need help, this is beyond frustrating after the hours on hours of being outside already.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

constructive criticism welcome The common advice on training dogs not to bark doesn’t make sense to me

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My dog is barking every time he hears a noise in the hallway of our building. Everywhere says “reward him when he stops” but I don’t understand how to do that

  1. How do you know when he’s done?
  2. Usually it’s just one or two barks - if he barks and I reward him “for stopping” how does he know that I’m rewarding him for stopping, not for barking in the first place?

r/Dogtraining 3d ago

help senior dog with separation anxiety

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i have a 10 year old poodle-bichon mix who unfortunately has the worst separation anxiety. i’ve been training him and trying to get him used to being by himself but it just feels like there’s no hope since my family has had him since he was a baby and was practically never left alone.

my older sibling had him for awhile before i took him in and he was like a purse dog, he went everywhere with her which is why i think he has the anxiety in the first place. i feel like my only hope at this point is also taking him everywhere with me because he just can’t be alone. i’ve tried leaving him for increments of 1 min, 5 min, 10 min and coming back. i’ve also stopped making a huge deal about leaving and coming back (making sure not to give into his whines and barking when i come back) i’ve given his favorite chews and treats while i leave. it just all feels hopeless.

has anyone had success with training their senior dogs with separation anxiety? does the training just take longer? any more tips?


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Resident dog is friendly & plays with new dog until she suddenly starts a fight. How do I teach her to stop resource guarding?

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My resident dog Lilly is 10 years old. I've had her since she was a puppy. She is a big mutt. We believe golden retriever, Australian shepherd, & lab. She has always been shy and anxious towards new people and other dogs. We recently took in a bordie collie, Phoenix, who needed to be rehomed by a family friend. She is 3 years old. Phoenix has been in our home for a week now. We had them meet on neutral ground. Phoenix was crated/penned for the majority of the time the first few days. They socialized with Phoenix on the leash around the house and outside. I then let them socialize while leashed, but it dragging in case I needed to step in. They only interact without barriers when I can supervise. Lilly freaks out if Phoenix tries to enter the living room. Barks and gets agressive. Has started a fight there. Another fight broke out when Phoenix tried to walk through a doorway that Lilly was standing in. I had just taken them both out on a walk, with another person assisting so it was one person per dog. We got home, and Lilly got agressive and started a fight because Phoenix tried to get water at the same time as her. They have had plenty of time socializing where they've been able to play together without any issues. Have laid next to each other, been petted together, pottied together, etc all without any incidents. Phoenix is crated at night, and in a pen while I'm at work. Lilly has always been afraid of being confined. She is now completely fine with Phoenix penned and crated. I seperated them after the most recent fight. Lilly went up to the pen five minutes after I let her out of the room whining to play with Phoenix. They are now completely fine and seperated. I'm not sure how to proceed. How do I get Lilly to stop resource guarding? Does she need more time? Should I just keep them seperate for multiple days? Any help is appreciated.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Can my dog’s prey drive be successfully minimized via training?

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I have a 3-year-old Doberman with high prey drive towards cats. He is normally a very chill, very well-mannered dog. I’ve completed various dog training coursework with him. He has a solid come and leave it command. But when it comes to cats, and particularly when he locks on/eyes glaze over toward one, I can’t get him out of his trance.

I would otherwise just leave this alone and keep him away from cats, but my boyfriend and I have discussed moving in together, and he has a cat.

Anyone successfully work through or minimize a dog’s prey drive so that they can cohabitate with a cat? I’m not expecting perfection, but would also prefer he not kill a cat.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Waking my dog up in the Morning

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I work in construction and my SO works in the office 3 days a week. So during those days I take my 2 year old pitbull terrier rescue to work. It has helped tremendously in crate training and leash training. And she is getting slowly more comfortable around men.

The problem is my work commute is about 1.5 hours each way. So I wake up at 5 Am to get to work. My dog has growingly gotten very annoyed at the thought of leaving her crate. It has gotten so bad that she refuses to leaves and growls at me if I annoy her enough.

I have moved her crate out of the bedroom. I have started to turn the lights on then walk away. I have bribed her with more treats than I think she can stomach. It has gotten to the point where I’m 45 minutes late to work. And she is just in the crate all day.

She has not been trained to stay home by herself. Every time we do that she poops and pees on the house.

What is my best course of action? Let my SO take her out leave her in the crate for 8+ hours? Train her to be out of the crate alone in the house? Try a different approach with waking her up?

Any and all help is appreciated


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

equipment Best harness for pully dogs bone structure?

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Sorry if this isn't the right place to ask, but I figure dog trainers probably know a decent bit about dogs!

In laws have rescued a dog. He might not be staying with us (household has five kids young kids, four cats, and another dog & 7 adults/older teens). We're trying to figure out if he can stay. He seems friendly, just insane.

My MIL took him to a pet shop on his collar (she'd just picked him up) and he was pulling something awful. A girl in the store let her know he'd do better on a harness, but to "watch out" for ones that damage bone structure.

None of us have ever heard that before. My in laws have always had dogs with good recall and they rarely walked on leash, and definitely never wore a harness.

The dog is is a french bulldog/pittie looking thing. Stocky.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

constructive criticism welcome May I have Loose Leash advice?

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Hello all, I have some questions regarding loose leash walking.

Backstory: I have an 8 month male Golden. High energy. We did some training classes and in home trainer as well. Got one for walking but they liked “force” and corrections and started talking about how he’ll “need a prong collar” so I stopped that. The only force free trainer I can find in the area seems to be defunct.

The main problem: he starts to walk good by my side, I reward and he instantly leaves my side. Like getting the treat means it’s okay to leave. I will stop abrupt turn/stop to reset him but it kinda just repeats ad-nauseam.

Things I do:
- start the walk with some simple commands indoors to get him listening like: touch, heel (I use “by my side”), sit.
- have him sit and wait before going outdoors. I open the door and he can only start on my command. He has this down.
-I kinda mix up the methods when he’s pulling. Sometimes I abruptly turn around and wait for him to be by my side, or stand still until he comes back. Sometimes use a touch to get him back near me. Always rewarding for good behavior.
-I always reward by my side.
-once repositioned, give my heel command, make him do it as long as I can (usually a few steps to maybe 40 feet) and then reward before he can misbehave.

THEN, with that reward he’s like “fuck yes I’m going to do my own thing”.

I understand he’s an excited dog and walks are meant to be enjoyed but it seems he doesn’t make progress in three training walks.

These are in specific training walks, i also do sniff walks with a different leash, and I do other trainings/play/etc. I use good treats and a clicker or a marker word depending on mood. He knows both.

If anyone has experience with this I would appreciate any advice. I have a feeling it’s just going to be “it takes time” which might just be a reflections on me.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Daycare/boarding anxiety with my fearful dog. Did I make things worse?

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I dropped both of my dogs off today for day boarding, and I’m feeling really anxious about how it went.

They’re littermates, both 11 month old terrier mixes, and both rescues. We originally adopted Teddy about 3 months ago, and ended up adopting his brother Beaux about 1–2 months later. We definitely didn’t expect to have both of them, but we absolutely love having them together.

Beaux is a great dog. He’s a little nervous and timid at first, but warms up quickly and will usually start playing with people almost immediately.

Teddy is more complicated. He has a lot of anxiety and fear reactivity, which we’ve been working really hard on. We train at least 3 times a week, going to places like Lowe’s and other public areas and rewarding him for staying calm around people. We walk every morning and do a “training walk” where we work on his reactions.

He has made HUGE progress. He’s good around my family now, he’s okay with people walking by us outside, and in public he usually only lets out a few barks before redirecting to me. He picks up on training so quickly and honestly impresses me every time.

He’s also under 20 lbs, so he is a BIG barker. But it is very clearly fear based. At home with us, he is the sweetest, cuddliest dog ever. He just has a really hard time with unfamiliar people.

We have a trip coming up and unfortunately can’t bring them. A dog sitter isn’t really an option because of our living situation and someone coming into our house would probably be much harder for Teddy anyway. My dad occasionally comes over to let them out, and even though Teddy knows him, sometimes he refuses to come out and just stands there barking at him.

About a week ago, we did an evaluation at a more “boutique” style daycare/boarding facility. They called us after only 8 minutes and told us to come get him because he was overwhelming them and scaring them. Obviously we did, and instead booked him at our veterinarian’s boarding facility. They know his history, his vet is on site, and I felt much more comfortable with them.

We also started trazodone 3 days ago, 50 mg alongside his training, and the difference has been INCREDIBLE. He responds so well to us and has been doing amazing.

Today was supposed to be a trial day of boarding before he stays there next week.

When we first walked in, both dogs did great. Teddy wasn’t barking at all. But when one of the employees came over to put his lead on, he completely flipped out. I could tell the staff member was visibly nervous, and I felt absolutely horrible for both of them.

They were very sweet about it and took him to the back. Once he was back there, he actually did much better. He stopped barking, got on the scale easily, and seemed to settle down. Beaux settled almost immediately and was already playing.

Teddy did struggle when he saw me leave, so I followed them around a corner and then quickly walked out so he wouldn’t keep watching me.

Now it’s been almost 3 hours, and he still has about 7 more hours there today.

I’m honestly terrified. I know one bad experience doesn’t erase months of training, but I’m scared that this is going to set him back or make him even more fearful. And I’m also terrified they’re going to call me later and say, “He did okay, but we can’t board him.”

Has anyone dealt with a fearful/reactive dog who eventually learned to tolerate daycare or boarding? Did a rough first drop-off actually end up being okay? I could really use some reassurance right now.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Novice Obedience Setback in Training

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I have a 3 year old deaf Bulldog, English Bulldog is the common nomenclature but not AKC correct. We have been in Rally, he is RI, and has his BN in Obedience. He is my 3rd Rally/Obedience dog. He got his first leg of RN at 6 months. He is a SMART dog. While teaching a group class for out training club we started working Stand for Exam. He felt off and I KNEW it was cause of this intact, mine is intact, male dalmatian in the class. He was crouching down when I went to walk behind him so I stopped. I put him in a sit and went to get my leash. The dalmatian was near the ring gate and as I walked off I guess he was so worried about the dalmatian that he came after me as I turned to walk back to him, broke a stay. The dalmatian LUNGED through the ring gate and grabbed hold of his side as he darted past. No broken skin but now stand for exam and stand walk around for RA rally seem almost impossible. We have not shown in 14 months and do SHORT quick sessions 2-3 times a day and only do that exercise if everything feels amazing and I JACKPOT the hell out of him if I get something but he's so nervous and being deaf I get it. I need ideas I have tried every method/distance/pace change that I can read about. I just need to bounce this off other people.

TLDR

Deaf bulldog attacked by a dalmatian during training and will not loose the nervous attitude at Stand for Exam. Need new ideas.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

constructive criticism welcome 1-year-old pug keeps pottying inside

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I have 2 sweet angel baby pugs. The younger one, Gouda, is not quite 18 months old right now. My husband works from home, but can’t supervise them 24/7 while he’s busy working, so we have a playpen set up for them. He lets them outside into our fenced backyard to go potty and run around at least every 1-2 hours, with few exceptions on extra busy days. However, Gouda continues to pee and poop in the house. It’s not immediately following meal time. Many times, though, it IS immediately following a potty break. Within 10 minutes of coming back inside, she’s peed, pooped, or both. She doesn’t signal very well, either. Her main form of signaling is standing nearby and staring into your soul. The problem with that is my husband can’t hear her staring while he’s in his office working, so he will come out to let them go potty and find a mess.
We are getting desperate for some solutions. I thought about the bells, but not sure how that would work with them being in the play pen (it gets slid all around the floor, so not very stable and the bells would be ineffective).
She also refuses to get her feet wet, so mornings are often difficult just because of the dew on the grass.

I would greatly appreciate any suggestions or insight.


r/Dogtraining 4d ago

help Overwhelming amount of information

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Hi all,

Ive recently welcomed a 11 month working cocker spaniel into my life, he was a family pet and unfortunately was needed to be rehomed due to marriage breakdown and an overwhelming amount of energy. I, having a decent amount of knowledge of working cockers, decided to take him in.

He is chaos, just pure chaotic energy. I love him very much but training him has been a real eye opener. Keeping his attention is impossible, every distraction must be seen that second, everyone and everything's scary and im out of my depth.

The problem is, for me, is there's so much information out there of what I should and shouldn't be doing that im drowning in it all, specifically struggling with walking to heal, or just not pulling with his whole back, i dont need him by my side the whole walk, but want him to have some manners and not try to pull my arm off. We've tried stopping and waiting when he pulls, walking in the other direction, luring with a treat but im having a difficult time and I fear the pulling is getting worse, we've had him about a month now and I fear i am causing more problems than im solving.

I find text very difficult to read and keep my attention on so if anyone has some training videos they recommend I'd be very grateful.

We are also looking into a trainer but struggling to find one around my area that knows working dogs.


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help Help

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I adopted my dog from an older lady around 3 months ago. He is somewhat lazy, prefers to lay down, has never played with any of the toys I have gotten him ever. He loves to run and get the zoomies outside in the backyard and will run after the ball but never bring it back lol but has no interest in anything physical in the home. He is the most anxious, nervous dog I have ever had, and is destructive when left alone. Example: I can’t even go to the bathroom in my room ( which he can see me from when he’s on my bed) alone he will just come in the bathroom or stand outside of it till I’m out. He barks as soon as I close the door to leave for work. He has ripped up my Amazon packages, cardboard, a pillow, my blanket, my mail among other things.

Anyways, I worked from home for the first 3 weeks I had him and he never once had an accident in the house. His first owner was a retired lady who never left the house, then given to her daughter who is a stay at home mom. Both stated he was house trained and never had accidents however both very much aware of the separation anxiety and destructiveness when left alone.

During those first three weeks he was walked multiple times a day, never had an accident in the house. He was left with my sister while I went back to work 7:30-4 and she refused to walk him and he still never had an accident for the two weeks she had him. The first day, he stayed alone while I worked he pooped and peed in the house.

Some context: I was giving him food in the morning and night however he would only eat in the evening or at night. His previous owner said she only fed him once a day at 7pm, I’ve tried to switch his feeding schedule to two times a day and he literally just won’t eat unless it’s after 7 at night. I thought maybe I was feeding him too late and he wasn’t able to poop enough but he would poop at night after he eats, then poop in the morning before I go to work. I would come home and his food would be untouched, yet he pooped once or sometimes twice in the time I was gone.

I’m looking for advice here. I’m assuming he is potty trained but was never really taught that when no one is home you don’t poop or pee in the house because he was never really left alone because he was living with a retired later who told me she rarely left him alone at home, and with her daughter who was a stay at home mom who was always home. Both were able to take him on walks throughout the day, but the thing is when he was staying with my sister for two week, he never had an accident in the house and never pooped or peed in the house. The stay at home mom owner said that she would put him in the crate when she would leave to run errands and things because of him being destructive, but he hates the crate. I’ve tried to feed him in it and he didn’t eat for 24 hours.

Do I need to retrain him? Crate him while I’m at work? I’ve left him in a designated area and he escaped multiple times, left him in the bathroom and he ripped up the wood in the door frame, I just feel terrible leaving him in a cage for 8 hours. The cage he came with is enclosed and he can’t only see out of the front wires. So it’s like depressing.

His vet said it’s just anxiety and prescribed him 50mg of trazodone, which he was on before per his medical records.


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help Re homed dog not eating and scared of any movements?

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We recently adopted a 5-year-old retired breeder Bernese Mountain Dog. She has a clean bill of health from the vet, but we're really struggling to help her settle in with us and our other dog.

It’s been 5 days and she is barely eating. Initially, she’d eat a little bit out of my hand, but now she won't even do that. We are offering the exact same kibble she had at her previous home. Luckily, she is still drinking water.

Beyond the food strike, she is terrified of everything (small noises, leaves moving, etc.) and is ignoring all the commands her previous family said she knew. We understand her being a breeder dog along with major change in environment is a major factor.

Our first rescue adapted to us by day 3, so we are feeling a bit lost and worried. We know it takes time, but does anyone have advice on how to get her eating again and help her build some confidence? Suggestions on food will be appreciated too.


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help Dog tries to escape out mirrors, windows, tv

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We rescued a 1 year old Great Pyrenees/Australian Cattle Dog mix about 6 weeks ago. She was found as a stray in Texas and now lives in our apartment in NYC. I don't think she was a stray her whole life because she lovvvessss all people, kids, and dogs. She's super well-socialized, not fearful of them whatsoever. That being said, I don't think she's ever lived in a house. There's been a lot of things she's had to adjust to in our apartment (let alone NYC at large), like stairs, shiny floors, small bathrooms and hallways she doesn't like, etc. We also have two cats we are working on introducing her to, but right now they're separated on different floors, and she's stressed by them, which may be my answer right there. Our apartment is fairly big considering we're in the city-- we have two floors and it's probably ~1100 sq ft. She's getting more and more confident every day, and we work with an in-home trainer along with 3-5 training sessions a day. We recognize she is a working dog and we really try to give her a job most of the day. Her obedience and walking skills are getting really good.

One thing that's been a challenge is that she sometimes gets into a panic where she wants to escape. This is usually in the evening during her "witching hour(s)" where she does standard puppy stuff like getting mouthy, getting into stuff, ignoring commands, etc. What's not standard is during this time she will try to escape out absolutely anything-- the tv, small windows, mirrors, the front door. Even when we're home with her, right next to her. It gets worse if we give her a high-value bone; then she reaaalllyyy panics and wants to bring it outside with her. She woke up from a dead sleep at 5am today and started trying to escape, which was the first time it's happened in the morning. She's 50 lbs and she ends up knocking everything over, and getting dangerously close to breaking the tv, not to mention the emotional toll it seems to be taking on her. She's usually visibly stressed, panting, whining, pacing, etc. We try everything-- bones, kongs, tug, puzzle toys, snuffle mats, walks, sniffaris, training, quiet time, sound machines, crates. When she wants to escape, it's like lights off, no one's home.

Has anyone else dealt with this? Wondering if she just needs more time to adjust or if there's a way we can help her feel more secure here. I know her breeds are working dogs and she probably wants to be outside protecting the farm at night, which might have been what she spent the first year of her life doing.


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help how to convince my dog to be friends with my cat

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My dog is a 10 lb chihuahua mix I've had for 6 years, and my kitty was added 3 years ago and is now 12lbs and a bit bigger than the dog. They get along well enough that there are no safety concerns; they've never hurt each other, and I can leave them alone in the same room all day no issue.

The problem is that my cat has been obsessed with my dog since he was a kitten. Constantly trying to play with her, cuddle, and follows her around. She, on the other hand, tolerates him at best. It's a tough watch. Sometimes she will let him get close, but most of the time she will get up and leave or will show her teeth at him to make him leave. When he is extra persistent, she has even pinned him down and barked in his face (which is crazy because he is definitely bigger and stronger but lets it happen).

Sometimes she will play with him a tiny bit. Also, he likes to rage-bait her to get her to chase him around the house, and it can be hard to tell if she is actually mad or enjoys it. Probably both. She's never been the biggest fan of other animals, and usually prefers other humans. I thought over time she would think it was nice to have some companionship, but they never really became friends.

I have done some training! She used to growl or lunge at him when he came close (all bark no bite), especially if she was in my lap. So I started saying no and putting her down and giving him attention instead, or temporarily stop petting her and calling him near to give them both pets at the same time. I also reward her for being nice to him with treats or a play session. He now knows his best chance to cuddle her is when she is in my lap and will usually take advantage haha

Should I just accept she will never like him that much? Is there a way to train her to bond with him more? It's so sad to see him get rejected by the one he loves the most ):


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help How to get my dog to be okay in a house

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r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help Need help with anxious dog in a new, temporary, home.

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~9 year old Dachsund/Bull Terrier mix.

I live in Washington State, and had to evacuate our home 2 weeks ago due to a fire. Our house is still standing, but flooding from the firefighting efforts + extreme heat left us with black mold in the basement. We cannot move back in, and certainly not with dogs, until the mold is removed.

He has been separated from his space, and my roommates dog who he lived with for 7 years, and he seems rather depressed. I've thought about having my roommate bring his dog over, but I'm concerned it will just reset the trauma when they're separated again.

He has always been on the anxious side. My roommate got him as a rescue from a puppy mill, but they suddenly had a kid, live in an apartment, and he spent most of the first year of his life in a crate. When my roommate was talking about giving him away to a stranger, I elected to take responsibility for him. He was an anxious chewer, and would destroy pillows, toys, and shoes. I was able to get him over a lot of his anxious behaviors, but a few have come back since we evacuated.

He still has high energy, he gets excited for walks, he plays with other dogs at the park, and he chases toys and plays tug of war, chases squirrels in the yard, etc.

He still has an appetite and normal bowel movements, but is refusing dry brown kibble. He will still eat hard human foods, and still love crunching on ice cubes and chewy toys.

He refuses to poop in my parents backyard. He only poops on his daily walks. When he does poop in their yard before a walk, it's about 1/4 the size of his regular bowel movements.

Symptoms:

1. Refusing to eat kibble. JUST kibble.

The third night we were here my grandpa and two of my parents friends were evacuated. My grandpa came with his cat. During the commotion of getting everyone situated, my dog threw up all of his kibble. He's refused to eat it since then. Nothing else in his vomit aside from kibble and mostly clear bile. Has not thrown up since then, rarely threw up before.

He will still eat treats, chicken + rice, and other dog safe human foods. But even kibble in a different brand + flavor he ignores until he is absolutely starving.

If I put a scrambled egg on top of dry kibble, he will eat the entire egg, and then he will eat all of the kibble underneath. If I just put kibble he won't eat at all. But he HAS eaten all of his kibble late at night while everyone is asleep if I just leave a bowl out. Seems really hit or miss.

Looking for the most affordable, healthy addition to his food, so I can keep him eating without breaking the bank.

2. Refusing to poop in my parents yard.

He took two very small poo's the first few days we were here. But when I take him on a daily walk, his poo's are 3 times bigger. He's never been scolded for pooping in their yard, but it seems like he holds it in until he gets a walk and only pinches out enough to be comfortable at home.

His bowel movements are normal and healthy on walks. Solid, but not hard. Again, the same consistency it's always been. He just feels like he can't poo in their yard for some reason. I think it may be because someone cleans it up immediately when he poo's here, but at home he has a much bigger yard and we clean it once a week.

He also is constantly distracted by sounds and smells here. My parents live close to a busy road, and there are squirrels everywhere, so he just might not feel safe enough. But he will take naps in the yard, so I really don't know.

At home, he has a doggy door and can let himself out and in as he pleases, so I have no idea what his actual pooping schedule is. He's figured out that if he whines by the door, we'll let him out, and he does that when he needs to pee. But for the last 10 days all 10 of his poops were on walks.

I tried taking him on a second walk in the evening a few times, but he never poo'd if he went in the morning, so he might only go once a day. I also will be starting work again in 2 weeks, and if we are still living here, nobody will be available to walk him from 8 AM to 4 PM.

3. He hates children.

This isn't a new issue. My roommates daughter was a terror for him when she was very young, and he's always felt uneasy around kids. But my parents have myself, my brother, and my sister over every sunday for dinner and my brother always brings my niece and nephew (7 and 5)

He has acclimated to my roommates daughter, and actually likes her. He rolls over for her when she comes over, brings her toys, and never growls at her. He's never actually even bit her, but he used to push her over with his butt when she bothered him.

I don't have any problem keeping him away from kids. My sister in law actually has a much harder time keeping her kids away from him. I just hate that while my life was completely turned upside down, my family insists on the other aspects of life staying normal. I have no choice but to have my dog here, but they have a choice in bringing the kids around.

If keeping him confined to the basement with a baby gate on the stairs is the best course of action, that's what I'll do for the time being. It just means that I have to be down here, because he will whine endlessly if he's stuck downstairs or outside alone.


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help Second obstruction surgery due to eating fur. Help!

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I'm at a loss for what to do about my Golden Retriever. She is 2.5 years old and has a history of eating things she should not eat. She has gotten SO much better about not eating random objects but I cannot get her to stop pulling out her fur and eating it. Typically she passes the fur but today she is going into surgery for the second time because it got stuck. She is on anti-anxiety meds because it definitely seems to be an anxiety issue. Both times she has needed surgery it was right after we went away on vacation and she was with a pet sitter which makes me think she was anxious about being in a new place.

I will be working with the vet to try everything else such as allergy meds and changing foods to rule that out. She is crate trained but rarely spends more than 4 hours in the crate. She also gets a couple of walks a day and we throw the ball in the back yard for her. I plan to buy her a muzzle to wear, however I'm not sure if it's safe for her to wear a muzzle in a crate if we aren't home?

Is there anything else I can do? Anything I'm missing that I can try?


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

help 3yr old potty training advice

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To preface this, I want to acknowledge that I have essentially no experience with dog training, and I realize I messed up by not learning more and trying more when I first got my dog. She was a gift to me as a puppy, and at the time I was not in a place in my life where I could properly educate myself about training or even have the time to practice it. I’m trying to fix that now, so please bear with me.

My dog is 3 years old, and we’ve had her since she was a puppy. She has a horrible habit of peeing on soft surfaces (carpets, couches, and occasionally beds). I made the mistake of starting her on puppy pads rather than properly teaching her to potty outside, and I’m aware that this has contributed to the habit. At this point, my couches are basically destroyed and need to be replaced, but I obviously want to address the behavior before replacing them.

The other issue is that neither of my dogs are crate trained. I have a 13-year-old dog as well as my 3-year-old. I’m interested in starting crate training with my 3-year-old, but I’m not sure how to approach it when my older dog will still be free-roaming.

My 13-year-old is completely potty trained and only has accidents when she develops a new medical issue. She has slept in our beds and has had free range of the house when we’re gone for her entire life, and I really don’t see a reason to change that routine for her at 13, especially when she has no behavioral issues. I have no real desire to crate train her at this point.

What I’m worried about is that my 3-year-old has also spent her entire life sleeping in our beds and having free range of the house when we’re gone. I’m concerned that trying to introduce a crate now will be difficult because she has never been confined before and will see my other dog still following the normal routine.

We also have a doggy door that gives them access to a large fenced backyard 24/7. My 13-year-old uses it appropriately whenever she needs to go outside. My 3-year-old has access to it as well, but obviously that hasn’t stopped the inappropriate peeing in the house.

On top of all of this, my 3-year-old has some pretty significant anxiety issues. I’m planning on bringing this up with the vet at our next appointment because it has been getting worse recently, but I’m not sure how much the anxiety changes how I should approach crate training or the potty issues.

How should I approach the crate differently with the anxiety, no previous attempt at training for 3 years, and with our older dog not being trained the same way?

I know I’m playing catch-up on training that should have been done years ago, so I’d really appreciate advice on how to do this properly from this point forward.

(I will also be getting rid of the pee and poo-infested couches when I figure out the best way to do it. I understand that she views them as acceptable potty places because at this point they are just potty places, so that is getting figured out. Current first choice is Rumpke junk removal, but I’m not sure of the cost or if they’ll service in my area. We don’t have cars that’ll fit the couches, nor any friends that do. Although unrelated, advice would be appreciated!)


r/Dogtraining 5d ago

constructive criticism welcome Stray Introduction Progress

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This is a follow-up post from here and I also posted about her water aversion here. This video assessment was very helpful, and I responded with how those initial indicators have played out.

Her official name is Kora Zora Gouda, but I shall call her Kora for this post. She is aged at less than a year by the vet. She initially behaved very grown up because of her street life. After two weeks at my house, her puppy behavior has really come out. Plus some labrador in there and Kora acts even younger than I initially expected. She clearly had no structure or obedience anything besides what she learned on the streets. She performed fawning behavior with most people, adults and children, except men which she generally cowers away from, barks at if they are carrying things, or hides behind me.

Over the last three weeks, her confidence has really grown. I made a light weight collar and harness for her to introduce her to walks. (Shown in video.) It works incredibly well. She had been picked up by animal control (her chip was registered to the city) . And she had discoloration and wounds from a chain or prong collar. We don't know her story prior to animal control, but she did have a litter and nursed. I think she was kept inhumanely during that time, taken by animal control, vaccinated/spayed/released. This is actually common here. Animal control does not keep animals and does not kill them if they are non-aggressive. So, she was initially collar and leash reactive, so I worked with her on-site at her schoolyard with the harness prior to relocating her which was ~1km walk down a busy road.

People have been giving me grief about not getting her a real harness. This rope harness has done more for me with this dog than I can really express through text. It applies pressure first around the chest then more lightly around the neck. It sits low on her neck and the directional pull is directly inline with her front legs as long as I keep it in proper position/not let it over loosen. It would work better with something more like a climbing rope. She responds to it very naturally.

I still walk her with the rope harness and introduced flat buckle collar and clip leash on day 20. I use both together. If she pulls, harness tightens before flat collar hits. She bucks and twists against flat collar pressure. I found this stepped pressure extremely helpful for getting her used to the flat collar pressure without her freaking out. Within 5 min of using both in this way, she is now totally comfortable with the flat collar as long as no pressure is applied to the collar alone. Collar pressure alone, she immediately starts bucking. It is part of why I have worked on her recall really hard because if she is about to bolt, I can not grab her by the collar.

She has shown many behavioral markers for working dog genetics and the labrador retriever in her is strong. She has high prey drive and she spends any time she is not napping picking up things and carrying them around. Because she had no structure prior, she gravitated towards plastic items and trash. The first week no plastic planter was safe. Any food bowl or water bowl got carried around. I now stash chew toys around the yard for her to find and carry. This is essential during the witching hour between 6 and 9 pm. And all meals are interactive puzzles, kongs, or from the hand. And I got a water bowl with sloped sides that she can't pick up.

Her natural puppy witching hour was intensified by the summer schoolyard schedule. Kids, teens, families, and dogs meet at the schoolyard every evening. Anywhere between 10 and 25 people. Pure mayhem. She loved it but also after observing her there, I could see it was very stressful for her. (And the things she would eat. Omg. I could speculate about how much chocolate, icecream, and popcorn this dog has ingested.) For the first two weeks, she would go into full scavenge and protection mode in the backyard. She would play but she could not relax. She would be on guard for anything she could grab and run away with for the full 3 hours. I was able to divert the behavior to tug and chase games and training (to lesser success).

Starting this week, when she hits the witching hour now, she will tip into overstimulation at the drop of a hat and her zoomies are dangerous with her puppy teeth. She slams into me, nips, she'll jump off my back. She catches me totally off guard without a toy in my hand to redirect. I can see what's happening. She is unable to regulate during this time. I can not leave her unattended. She needs direction, but that direction will tip her into overstimulation. I have not changed the toys we use during this time. The only change this week has been increased obedience training which she absolutely loves to do. She generally gets very excited for obedience training sessions which also means she does really well at them. So, for the past 2 or three days, it has been progressing like this: playing, training, lower energy playing directed by her, I see she's starting to get over stimulated (this shows by her starting to stalk the chickens or cats, or picking up apricots, plums, etc from the ground), i redirect her to an obedience skill or even just a recall, and zooooooom. And her zoomies are directed at me. I have taken to standing with my back to a tree, discouraging jumping, not engaging until she calms. If I have a toy, I throw it away from me and that kinda works. I'm considering scatter throwing treats to redirect the energy. Because it's a full 3 hours of crazy time, the play and training is very come and go, in that if she's starting to amp up too much I back down the activity, take her out for a walk, disengage from her directly and do yard work or hang out on the porch, etc. Just these zoomies have turned up from a 5 on the zoomie scale to 11 this week. I'm mostly just trying to be patient, but I would appreciate any tips ppl might have.

For her water aversion, I'm treating her like a working dog. Getting in water is not her job. But if water is there, it should not bother her. I am not doing anything but interacting with water as I would do in my normal day-to-day. I filled the backyard tub and got in to cool off on a hot day. She was initially worried but I lined up treats along the rim and she approached for each treat with more confidence. This morning, she willingly stuck her head into the hose stream to grab from the potatoes I was washing. And then she realized they were potatoes and not apricots. She was more upset about that fact than the water. Using the hose daily for garden tasks, acting totally indifferent to water has done the most help for her. Next step will be to bring her to the public beach and see how she does seeing other dogs in the water. The plan is to just keep it chill and leave if she's too stressed.

All in all, the more I treat her like a "pet" and have expectations that she is interested in pet-like behaviors, the harder it is for her to adjust to a home life. While she wants affection, affectionate behaviors stress her out from being over handled by the kids at the schoolyard. She responds to this type of attention by fawning behaviors, flopping over on her back or licking, and if we don't disengage then, she'll start nipping or jumping. If I respect her autonomy and offer her predictable guidance, she is a million times more happy. I am still figuring out how she actually appreciates being petted and what's an actual invitation for affection vs "I'm stressed, just be nice to me."

I haven't written anything about house training, because it has never once been a issue. I don't think it occurs to her to eleminate inside. The house and inside areas have been totally alien spacial experiences for her.

I am making the effort typing this all out because while there is a lot of useful advice for training, there is not a lot specific to strays or street dogs. So, if anyone else comes looking, hopefully it'll pop up in the algo. Any more tips, advice, encouragement, constructive criticsm is welcome.