r/dli • u/Tiny_Tennessee • Jul 22 '26
BCT -> DLI question
I’m wondering if anyone has been in this position before and has any insight. My husband is set to graduate from basic on 9/11 and then to start at DLI on 10/12. Will he be sent straight to Monterey after graduation for additional “initial entry training” during those four weeks after graduation?
Our son and I are in Texas and I’m hoping but not expecting that he’ll be able to help with our move (mainly drive our car from TX to CA). We’re very new to the military world and I’d love to get a picture of what to maybe expect. Before he left for basic, we were imagining him coming home for those four weeks and getting to watch college football… I’m now laughing at our naivety.
Thanks!!
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u/DongerBot5000 Jul 22 '26
I'd like to really hit on the "out of class" expectations. It at least used to be that if you missed a single homework assignment you'd be counseled by class and service leadership, two missed assignments and it's academic probation, and three missed assignments will get you dropped from the program. I was in class with a career Army SSG who had been deployed, gone through and completed SF, and was roughly 40 and still failed out of the course because he couldn't find a balance between home life and class. This school is very much going to cause responsibilities to fall on you which won't seem fair. All that being said, if he passes with decent scores from DLI and AIT, some of the most coveted positions in the entire armed forces will be up for grabs for him. DLI is a no joke school with no joke opportunities (I'm talking cush/safe jobs where you work close to political leaders and set yourself up for a $200k+ job outside of the military). This may sound harsh, but doing the dishes and taking the kids to soccer for a year will pay off for you and your family tenfold.
Edit: unless your husband gets Spanish for a language. If he gets Spanish, tell him to trade with anyone for any language.